Dude.

VikingPug · 2020-07-18T17:05:20+00:00

I’m sickened by this. No amount of counseling can fix an LVM.

tellmesomething11 · 2020-07-18T17:20:39+00:00

They’ve been together for one year and just had a baby. So she got pregnant with 2 months of their relationship? And now she’s disappointed about the red flags? I’m not saying this to shame her but to warn y’all. Do not have a baby with a man you just met. Ever. You will pay the price almost every single time. I was with my ex husband (who had so many red flags I just didn’t realize) for years and I stayed because he was rich and he still was a scrub when we had kids. They dont change. 9 more years y’all. Then he’s out of my life, and won’t be able to control me because the girls will be 18.

applestorm · 2020-07-18T17:06:01+00:00

20F, 20M

In a relationship for a year

Had a baby together

Not married, just dating

Man verbally abuses her while she's giving birth

Mom is the traditional type and advises her to cOmMuNiCaTe first

Oh boy. I have a lot to say on this but honestly I'm too tired to type out anything. May she escape one day, also I pray for their kid.

punkiwi · 2020-07-18T17:06:01+00:00

There just have to be signs that the man was like this before the pregnancy. I just can’t imagine giving birth and finding out the father of my child is that much of an asshole. I wish only the best for this woman and her baby.

evaporative · 2020-07-18T18:18:28+00:00

God how I hate pickme mothers.

nocturnalis · 2020-07-18T19:37:53+00:00

I’ve seen this post three times on this subreddit and that’s okay because it provides us with three times to drag this jackass.

Thestral-glow6 · 2020-07-18T17:13:06+00:00

She’ll stay with him. 🙄

Middaysnight · 2020-07-18T21:51:54+00:00

Cue the advice on r/relationship_advice: CoMmUnIcAtE

redbirdflies · 2020-07-18T21:07:26+00:00

What do you expect from a 20 year old?

I know mistakes happen. This is why condoms are so important

20 years old is way too young to have a child. The frontal lobe of the brain isn’t even fully developed until age 25. Essentially at that age, it’s children having children.

It’s rare for the outcome to be a good one when families start out so young

CurlingFlowerSpace · 2020-07-18T17:54:19+00:00

Between this level of depravity, the shit coming out of Portland, and John Lewis' passing, I feel like the universe is really stress testing me today.

ReignRain95 · 2020-07-18T18:47:18+00:00

MACMUA · 2020-07-19T01:06:33+00:00

Can I slap him?

jointsbeforesex · 2020-07-18T21:10:29+00:00

Its gonna get sooo much fuckin worse if she stays with him.

superbbfan · 2020-07-19T19:06:02+00:00

This is a hot mess

Title	Dude.
Author	badbeert
Upvotes	119
Comments	22
Date	July 18, 2020 4:54 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/htjv1u/dude/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/dude.715090 https://theredarchive.com/post/715090

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