Girl please no 🤦‍♀️

CeriseNoire · 2020-06-28T22:06:38+00:00

Your own degradation is so quirky. Men hang around you until you get dumped for someone they actually like. Omg that's so funny, girl. Tell me more.

peachpy55 · 2020-06-28T23:24:35+00:00

Ugh. I've been the woman men want to cheat with before they commit fully to their girlfriends with no career ambitions. They think I'm super interesting because I'm very ambitious with my own career/investment plans and then they realize that it's scary to deal with women who have the financial/professional means to walk away... and then they go back to the woman who can't make ends meet.

SayNad · 2020-06-29T03:19:14+00:00

a "foster girlfriend"

The correct term is "free sex service provider".

ginnnnie · 2020-06-29T03:00:53+00:00

Jesus this is NOT something to be proud about. Does this girl have no feelings? I wouldn’t want to put myself in this situations...

Pasdepromesses · 2020-06-28T21:59:43+00:00

I feel the same tho.

I had a couple of boyfriends and a fiancé that I very harshly cut off after they displayed dealbreaker or N/LVM behaviour. They couldn’t phantom me breaking up with them but I stood my ground.

All three of them were so flabbergasted and shook that they actually went to therapy and levelled up. But for me it was too late and I still didn’t want to reconcile.

This made them very different in their next relationships tho (except for the ex fiancé, I secretly think he didn’t really change). The two ex bf’s are now married with children. They thanked me for making them level up.

Now I only have to vet better and show that kind of self respect right of the bat with orange flags and not only when a red one is flapping in my face.

tonha_da_pamonha · 2020-06-29T04:39:13+00:00

Oh man... i used to say I was perpetually setting my men up for their next girlfriend.

it_was_just_here · 2020-06-29T15:52:51+00:00

I used to know a pickmeisha who was doing just that for a guy. She found a guy with no money, no job, no car, no goals, baby-mama drama, and nothing to offer other than good looks and "nice conversation". She would encourage him to live a non-bummy lifestyle. To get a job, to get back in school, to find a career. I asked her why she was doing all of this instead of just finding a man who already had those things. She said "So he can have a good foundation for when we're dating. Even if he doesn't end up with me, I've at least built him up for the next woman". Why would you date or build a man to prepare him for the next woman? It's a waste of time and too much emotional labor for nothing in return. The time that pickmes are spending to build up men is the same time they could be using to build up themselves financially, mentally, and emotionally.

GoldeneAnanas · 2020-06-29T07:54:55+00:00

Dunno if perfect, divine sarcasm or complete and utter idiocy. O_o

(Hoping and laughing for the first tho)

Lilterfy · 2020-06-29T01:33:22+00:00

Having self respect ist that hard😬

breadandbunny · 2020-06-29T20:07:12+00:00

Oh my god, that's so awful.

scentstar5000 · 2020-06-30T01:10:08+00:00

!!!!!

Title	Girl please no 🤦‍♀️
Author	eng2fly
Upvotes	467
Comments	28
Date	June 28, 2020 9:44 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hhn4sp/girl_please_no/
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