He blocked me immediately after reading this, he was an absolute nightmare when he’d get drunk. I feel so great that I was able to put him in his place. Thank you FDS

makingstuffwithstuff · 2021-03-30T19:08:58+00:00

For context; he was one of the meanest, angriest drunks you’ve ever met! I took him back twice over the last 10 years, he’d always claim he changed but then he’d get drunk, back me into a corner, scream in my face until I cried...I used to joke that he’d kill me one day because he would get SO unhinged after drinking. Never, ever again.

makingstuffwithstuff · 2021-03-30T19:08:33+00:00

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GiraffeLibrarian · 2021-03-30T19:25:20+00:00

I know others might say to just ignore/leave on read/block but it can feel good to respond. Something I’ve done in the past is (hand)write a letter and then I just don’t send it. It can feel good to just let it all out.

thepsychopathhunter · 2021-03-30T20:40:50+00:00

I’m glad you got to say your piece! In my experience these types of manipulators are not just mean when they’re drunk. They’re mean and cruel people in general but they use drinking as an excuse to abuse others. They are cowards. Glad you’re free of him.

honeybeeroll · 2021-03-30T20:53:54+00:00

So he creates another instagram to get around your block of his account, to reach out to you for the first time in years (for what!?), and then block you when you tell him the truth. Lol. I cannot with these guys. Good for you. I know we advocate to not respond here, but every once in a while, sending a response and then immediately blocking after is what we need. Sometimes it's what these guys need lol, shamed into finally leaving us tf alone. Its important to know yourself and who you're dealing with, and if this kind of thing will help you move on. Glad you are rid of him!

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