I went on a date with this 25 y/o student I met on tinder. He tried to meet with me on several occasions but eventually I'm the one who initiated the date. Tbh, I don't think that him being a student indicated on him having financial problems because he lives with roommates in a very nice location in a very nice apartment and he has a part time job (I guess he gets a lot of help from his parents). Anyway after the date ended he nonchalantly paid for his drinks only. And I was mostly ok with that given that I was the one who asked him out. Then a second date, this happens again. He says "you wanna go back to my place?" And in my head I'm like well yeah I want to have sex but also why do you just assume that'll be this easy to get a women to sleep with you based on two dates without wooing her or making an effort to impress her whatsoever? Than this guy got the hint (at least I thought so) as he suggested we'd go to a hike at some nature reservation a few days ago while the weather was nice. And he said he wanted to get out of the city for a while. After we walked for 3 hours we got back to the city for food. He paid and said he loves spending money on me (like yeah how would you know you never tried it before). Than he's like, let's go back to my place. I said we should pick up some beers and hang with his roommates. He has 2 guy roommates and a girl i really like. But once we get there, sitting with his roommates, he kept touching me, nothing inappropriate but just irritating. When I told him I'm going home (after being with him like 10 hours straight) he was bummed and said that I'm acting distant and like I'm not into him. Wow. Just wow. Like I have to be overly sexual so that you get the sense that I like you? We met like 3 times I don't know how I feel yet and you should be able to respect that. I told him that, kindly. He says he gets it and he appreciates that I told him that as it's not a fun conversation to initiate. Than he invites me to this party and I come with a friend only to be totally ignored by him. I left and we went to a different party, than after he's all drunk and high and bored and couldn't find any of his friends he calls me and I tell him I'm in a different party nearby. He comes to the entrance and asks me if I want to go to his apartment. Needless to say, I'm never going to his apartment. Lol.

Edit: starting to realize drink dates are not a good idea.