Before FDS, i would give any man a chance regardless of his education, work, personality or looks. As i got older i set higher standards (must be educated, must have a job, must be tall) but i was still loose on the personality and looks. I thought i could convince myself that someone is attractive and personality is something you can change (Fun fact: no, it is not).

I went on dates with chubby men, ugly men, rude and sexist men, you name it. I always excused their behavior and thought i can build them but i got tired of being Bob the Builder. But i feel like i was at my lowest when i went on my most recent date 3 months ago, before FDS of course.

He lied about his height saying he's 5'10 (i told him i don't meet with short men, my standard was 5'11 & taller but i kind of bent it over for him), we meet and he's 5'6.5 and i'm 5'4. I was devastated but i thought i could look past that and we went on 3 more dates and that's when i realized i just can't get attracted to him. He did look better on pictures but in real life he was 3/10 at best. He had any unattractive feature possible. He was chubby, short, thin lips, crooked yellow teeth, very bad bone structure (face), his face shape was very round with no jawline or shape, like a basketball. His nose and eyes were also bad and he had such a bad hairline and he was about 23, not even 50. I couldn't name a single thing attractive about him.

Did he think i wouldn't notice that he's short? fall in love with him regardless of height (and looks)? never. He tried holding my hand in public and i felt like i'm out with Shrek but hey, at least Shrek is tall.

Funny thing is, he has very very high standards. Must be porcelain white with shiny clear skin, must have straight hair, light eyes and light hair, must be very very skinny and very busty (like anime girls, lol), must be a virgin (probably so she couldn't tell he had a tiny dick), must be under 5'3, must have a 35-36 shoe size (4 US, 2-3 UK). He was honest and said he would date any woman ranged from 14 to 25. When i heard 14 i wanted to punch him, that Quasimodo looking guy is straight up a pedophile. Honestly i did not meet half of those requirements and i wanted to take the piss so i said i'm a virgin when he asked (yeah sure, after dating 2 men for two years each? lmao).

When i told him this is not going to work out he was very upset and said i should 'overlook' his height if a man was perfect other than that. Perfect? lol, this guy was straight up an ogre with a bad personality. He then proceeded to tell me "too bad Hitler didn't kill all of you" (I'm 1/8 Jewish) and that's when i blocked him everywhere.

After FDS i would not date someone who is not a 7/10 (at least) and tall. I'm not looking for the most attractive man, i'm looking for someone i'll be attracted to and treat me with respect, kindness and be generous and giving.