How often should a guy be planning dates with you?

fireforestfairy · 2021-12-23T00:54:51+00:00

Around four times to twice per month, depending on how busy both of you are.

plumeriaworld · 2021-12-23T01:47:12+00:00

I like once a week or so, but around the holidays then a week might be missed every so often due to family/travel commitments.

Timely_Fox_6191 · 2021-12-23T00:46:41+00:00

Once a week for sure. I think having too much time inbetween dates signals lack of serious interest

vbych76 · 2021-12-23T04:13:53+00:00

Do not forget to book in your schedule at least 3 days/evenings of the week just for yourself. Non negotiable days your use to see friends or family, work on something, a hobby, go to the gym or just go to sleep early. I made the mistake to allocate all my weekends for a boyfriend and I don't want that anymore. It's cute at the start of the relationship, but the hype wears off fast.

Specific-Composer300 · 2021-12-23T13:14:04+00:00

I think don't get too caught up on "rules." What do YOU want? If you want to see him more or less than your peers see thier men, who cares, find a man who can meet YOUR needs, whatever they are.

Eli1984 · 2021-12-23T10:07:46+00:00

The first few dates where once per week then twice per week after a month. BUT (!) You do you, whatever you want or like, depending on how much time you have and how high effort he keeps the time with you. Do not lower your expectations und don't lower contact to other people in your life you love and care about ❤️

xfelugirlx · 2021-12-23T06:27:11+00:00

Once a week

fdsonlynoscrubs · 2021-12-23T07:38:55+00:00

In my experience early dating is usually 1X per week, then 1 weeknight + 1 weekend after a few weeks, then evolves into more than that.

CandidKick · 2021-12-23T12:01:05+00:00

All the responses to your question sound like great advice, so I’ll instead suggest asking yourself this: when you communicate daily, who is the one that initiates the conversation? There should be mutual effort.

Title	How often should a guy be planning dates with you?
Author	Vervibes
Upvotes	86
Comments	11
Date	December 23, 2021 12:43 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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