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HVM adapt in these tough times

posprov

March 19, 2020
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Title HVM adapt in these tough times
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posprov

Upvotes 344
Comments 22
Date March 19, 2020 10:13 PM UTC
(6 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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[–]miz_nycFDS Newbie 99 points100 points101 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ok, I think this is cute!

Let's just hope he doesn't fuck it up and ask for nudes

[–]HottPinkSlugFDS Newbie 96 points97 points98 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I dated a guy who I used to do this with when he was out of town for work. He would grubhub himself and me sushi and we'd put on the same movie. I thought it was so cute

[–]lival42FDS Newbie 27 points28 points29 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That sounds lovely

[–]CorruptSoulGem95 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

That actually sounds super adorable. 😂👌🏻

[–]SewudFDS Apprentice 37 points38 points39 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

There was a guy who was trying to date me long distance, but he was so cheap he never sent me any goods, he just expected me to be his free personal e girl. Beware.

[–]quaintlyspokenFDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep, make sure you got the bag.

[–]Dimethylchlorine 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

GIRL! Say this louder! Sadly I can relate but atleast I was on my FDS game (talking to other men) before I dropped him

[+][deleted] -22 points-21 points-20 points 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

Why couldn’t He couldn’t get it himself ?

[–]BlueberryOrchid95 27 points28 points29 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Corona virus

[–][deleted] 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

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[–]RoyalOccasion 21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like he’s going as well to his. It’s not like there’s any date locations open? It’d be inappropriate for him to show up to hers with a bottle of wine for a first date.

Only fast food/grocery stores/gas stations are open here.

[–]lillycrackFDS Newbie 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Because travelling for non essential things is a bad idea. Driving/public transport to get wine for her is unwise when he could be coming from further away. He could have vulnerable people with him that he shouldn’t risk taking it back to. Safer for her to pop down the road to her corner shop herself.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If she’s traveling down the road isn’t it the same thing ? Everyone should just be staying home if they can help it

[–]lillycrackFDS Newbie 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s really not. In one scenario she’s popping down to the corner shop to buy groceries (which is still permitted), likely on foot. In another he is leaving his house, travelling further and risking more in terms of passing a virus on or catching it. Walking down my road alone to the shop isn’t the same as someone having to come from further away to leave it on my doorstep.

Everyone is having to go to their corner shops right now for supplies. Whilst I would usually expect a guy to go out and buy the wine himself, given the pandemic and what little we know, I would consider him foolish and reckless for going out and travelling further when I could just walk up the road to get the bottle myself within my own little contained community (and also buy some bloody loo roll while I’m there). For all we know he could have vulnerable people at home which would make his going out extra stupid. Pandemic time is not a normal time so rules change. Recklessness is LVM behaviour.

Edit: not to mention she’s smarter by not giving her address out. The guy is just “a guy”, not her boyfriend. He doesn’t need to know her address.

[–]BlueberryOrchid95 -5 points-4 points-3 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I guess he could have ordered from an online wine company and had it mailed to her directly priority (or in advance) which would have been nicer. But maybe he didn’t think of that.

[–]trudylouk1FDS Newbie 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Or she may not want to hand out her home address to every guy she’s goes on a date with.

[+]quaintlyspokenFDS Newbie -6 points-5 points-4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I agree with this comment chain. There are plenty of gift giving agencies available for little deliveries like that.

[–]Ivegotnoenergy4 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Some states do not allow delivery of alcohol. Texas didnt until like a few days ago.

[+]BlueberryOrchid95 -38 points-37 points-36 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

ugh the guy I like is a doc helping out in this corona shyt and I want him to do this with meeeeeeee but he hasn’t messaged me in so long :(

[–][deleted] 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]brinmxxx 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He hasn’t messaged you girl, that should tell you something

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