Just imagine.

Datonecatladyukno · 2020-02-12T15:46:55+00:00

I said a similar thing to my best friend a few weeks ago. IMAGINE IF you loved yourself half as much as you love the father of your kids who after 15 years refused to marry you, hits you and cheats. Breaks my heart every damn day

kinkyincombat · 2020-02-12T13:43:22+00:00

That’s a hard to swallow pill oooof

riddzyrooster415 · 2020-02-12T16:42:13+00:00

Geez, I just stopped crying over a guy and popped onto Reddit to take my mind off of it. This is the first thing I see. Bold. Brilliant. What’s wrong with me....

ms_monquis · 2020-02-12T12:31:46+00:00

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scarletbegonia79 · 2020-02-12T14:57:07+00:00

I needed this right now! Funny how a bunch of brilliant women who I have never met know exactly what I need to hear and the fuckboy who I share a child with-would rather piss on what we had than put fourth an ounce of effort ! Sorry about the typos, it was typed with my middle finger! 🤦‍♀️

sosorreal · 2020-02-12T16:39:57+00:00

Damn. I've been holding out for some guy I really thought was The One but he didn't come back and I barely hear from him ever.

Why do I believe so much in that, yet so little in myself?

Sigh. I'll be thinking about this.

2020-02-12T14:03:05+00:00

Ouch, right in. The feels 😂

AliceKingsly · 2020-02-12T14:40:50+00:00

I needed this. 😩

CheshireTerror · 2020-02-12T15:24:00+00:00

That happened to me last year, with a so called “friend” of mine, only to find out he had a gf and was fucking around with other women. Needless to say, he’s not in my life anymore and I physically cannot bring myself to be his friend (he was a good friend to me, before I started liking him, but he just wanted to fuck, nothing else)

Edit: When this “friend” started ignoring me, that’s when I really started cutting (I had been cutting because of him prior, but but it wasn’t as bad). It was about a week before his roommate noticed that he was doing this (again).

I found out everything because of him, he would target (mainly) women, thing is, he never pressured me to do anything, I made the choice to want to get involved with him (romantics you’re and sexually). That’s why I never picked up on what he was doing.

From what I was told (and understand), when he first did it, they were women that didn’t live in our city, mainly overseas, he would try to get sexy pics out of them, then when he got what he wanted, he would ignore them and move on to the next. With me, he didn’t get sex out of me (thankfully) before he started ignoring me, the only logical explanation that I can think of was he wasn’t getting what he wanted, when he wanted it.

This roommate had no idea that he was doing it again and he constantly apologized for not doing something sooner. I kept reassuring him that he did the right thing, albeit a bit late, but I still had an explaination for what happened. As much as I didn’t want to believe it, I had no other choice but to believe it.

BongSlurper · 2020-02-12T17:28:33+00:00

Ugh so true. I just pulled the trigger on my exit plan a few days ago.

GeronimoRaggedyman · 2020-02-12T18:23:26+00:00

Wake up call. I’m gonna need some water to swallow this pill.

xLcheeseburger · 2020-02-13T01:08:07+00:00

Omg can yall just like warn me before you come at me like this??? Damn.

I'm just sitting here embarrassed I let that happened

JesusisKingisLord · 2020-02-12T14:27:18+00:00

Wow! Love this so deeply

glittersparkles212 · 2020-02-12T18:10:25+00:00

I love that twitter account. It took me out of the mud so many times ❤️

2020-02-12T19:33:29+00:00

It’s nice to see other women have similar feelings to my own.

listen10 · 2020-02-12T17:25:35+00:00

So true

hannah422001 · 2020-02-12T21:25:57+00:00

Read this out loud to the LVM I was pouring my emotions a few hours ago and he literally replied is that me .... At least he’s aware how much potential I have

Anyway I got dressed and went home to clean my room and start planning my study schedules

qriuschic · 2020-02-13T00:50:33+00:00

NEEDED TO SEE THIS... thanks.

7_0f_9 · 2020-02-13T03:42:31+00:00

so true

j_bo · 2020-02-13T03:56:21+00:00

I know I needed this but that's a big ouch.

Title	Just imagine.
Author	NecessaryCook
Upvotes	2069
Comments	33
Date	February 12, 2020 11:58 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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