LOL

peachpy54 · 2020-08-09T11:46:19+00:00

It's the last thing on my list. My list has only one thing on it.

Airisvel · 2020-08-09T12:13:57+00:00

Lol those are words pronunced by men who don't want to be accountable for their atrocious behavior. They think that as long as their intentions aren't to hurt you (although they don't really care if they do), you can't blame them. It's a total red flag because they are basically telling you that they will never accept any responsability whatsoever.

You don't have to actively want to hurt someone to actually hurt them. If he doesn't understand that, he has the emotional intelligence of a rock.

daisy_0720 · 2020-08-09T14:31:47+00:00

You know what people who truly don't want to hurt you do?

Not hurt you.

It's that fucking simple.

huevos_and_whiskey · 2020-08-09T14:04:47+00:00

“Last” as in that’s their endgame.

idiopathictendencies · 2020-08-09T14:07:37+00:00

...but I’m going to do everything I can to hurt you and then try to blame you for it and turn myself into the victim.

seraphinelysion · 2020-08-09T13:00:13+00:00

Accurate. 👌

2020-08-09T20:10:16+00:00

It’s not even the last thing on their list lol it’s the first thing they do when they feel even slightly wronged.

BabyGothQ · 2020-08-09T20:26:50+00:00

Lmao it’s like that saying: I could care less.

You’re telling on yourself bro lol You care.

So with this you’re telling on yourself: it’s on your list to hurt me.

Someone who wants to take care of you, that is on their list.

thisisvexing · 2020-08-10T07:05:40+00:00

My ex used to literally say “I only hurt you now so that we won’t have problems later” That ‘later’ never really happen since we argued like everyday

Marionberry12345 · 2020-08-11T18:56:55+00:00

If someone who’s supposed to love and cherish me is comfortable with making me feel unhappy/disrespected/ignored/etc. on a regular basis, he doesn’t deserve to be in my life.

Title	LOL
Author	Imissdunkaroos
Upvotes	1113
Comments	15
Date	August 9, 2020 8:54 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/i6g91a/lol/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/lol.723640 https://theredarchive.com/post/723640

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