LVM making his partner pay for everything, while he uses his full income for himself only

Maingurl · 2021-05-27T13:02:26+00:00

So he might have OCD/PTSD and he thinks vitamins will help? Wtf💀! Girl get out.

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2021-05-27T13:59:49+00:00

They aren't even engaged, and he already has her paying all his bills, so he can pay some strip mall scammer almost $2000 a month for nothing. Don't move in with men.

eveloe · 2021-05-27T14:06:53+00:00

I’m sorry did she say MORTGAGE?!

millennialpink2000 · 2021-05-27T14:15:26+00:00

Here is a prime example of men and their mental health.

They blame everyone else about their issues, yet she's been trying to get him to seek professional help and he won't. He's taking fucking vitamins and taking advantage of his gf. Men DO NOT LISTEN to anyone but other men when it comes to their mental health. This problem can ONLY BE SOLVED BY MEN. He's pathetic.

I hope every lurking scrote who shouts about men's mental health not being taken seriously mainlines this post like they're doing coke off of it.

Mediocre_Principle · 2021-05-27T12:50:07+00:00

If his health is THIS BIG of an issue he’s got no business being in a relationship right now. Should be alone dealing with his own issues. Not sucking the life out of her in a “faux” relationship . I have been with a user like this when I was a pickme in my former life. Nothing good comes of it. He already doesn’t respect or regard you by this point. He will get better and leave. Or cheat.

lskfjd743 · 2021-05-27T14:20:46+00:00

I gasped when I read the word "mortgage" - WHY are these women binding themselves to these human leeches? At least there are no kids and no marriage! She needs to keep it that way.

Papaverinum · 2021-05-27T12:46:00+00:00

WHY IS SHE LIVING WITH HIM? 💀💀

RussianCat26 · 2021-05-27T12:51:38+00:00

I so desperately want to write a well thought response, dismantling every single sentence. But that first sentence got me " health issues that he's been dealing with but won't seek help for directly"

What a bum. He wants to live in his trauma, its now his identity. No accountability, only denial and indifference. EWWWWWW lol

pinkcityscape · 2021-05-27T14:30:44+00:00

If she marries him it will get worse since he’s not getting the help he actually needs

sveji- · 2021-05-27T14:55:05+00:00

He's been doing this for a whole year and she's still with him? Hell no

amhran_oiche · 2021-05-27T15:05:34+00:00

When she says "he works 10 hours (including driving one hour there and back.)" So he works 8 hours, and commutes for 2. So he gets home at 6 or 7. That's plenty of time to do, idk, anything.

This is just sad.

LonelyWineAunt · 2021-05-27T18:49:32+00:00

Oh my God, he’s wasting his money on garbage treatments and she’s paying the mortgage? She needs a lawyer ASAP to get advice on how to ensure she gets the house after they split.

I have an ex with mental health problems who did this to me too. It was one of the many reasons I broke up with him.

I was willing to take on the lion’s share of expenses for a little bit of time while he stabilized but he didn’t even try, used cocaine behind my back and made himself worse.

He also thought he was hot shit because he’d got me to pay for everything.

He left his FB messenger open on my computer so I read all his messages with his friends and he bragged that he managed to snag a woman who was paying for everything.

“Get a white girl to pay for everything,” he told his friend. “Trust me.”

I was obviously furious and humiliated. I can’t believe I fell for his act of “trying to get better” when it was all a ploy to extract funds from me.

Title	LVM making his partner pay for everything, while he uses his full income for himself only
Author	fresie2
Upvotes	76
Comments	21
Date	May 27, 2021 12:05 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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