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Man calls out misogynistic entitled red pill loser

halebaIe

January 19, 2022

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Title	Man calls out misogynistic entitled red pill loser
Author	halebaIe
Upvotes	292
Comments	41
Date	January 19, 2022 1:46 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/s7qgof/man_calls_out_misogynistic_entitled_red_pill_loser/
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"That's why you blacks dont have families"

Its not a race thing, we know that the reason's for people not having families and such vary and are not down to such factors as race/colour of skin. I am related to white males who are absent fathers, its a misguided ego thing imo, people that lack the emotional depth to be parents, despite obstacles and pressure.

While I will not disagree with the statisitics, we know its really not as clear cut as that, statistically black people make much less money than white counterparts and poverty fuels the breakdown of families, relationships, education attainment and life opportunities while also driving up mental health issues for all involved. Just thought it was a bit cocky how the caller was like "Its a black problem" when (i think) its a problem with men being unable to emotionally navigate the world in a healthy way.

But that's just my two cents of course

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[–]WandernWondernFDS Newbie 104 points105 points106 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I’ll just say this - assuming you’re an ally of the black community AND of black women particularly - hear us. We can no longer afford to mollycoddle BM - it’s literally costing us our lives. BM are not keeping up on literally any socioeconomic metric. Which leads to more antisocial behavior from them which majority fall on black women and children as they ‘punch down’.

We all know the roadblocks set up for them to fail in many western nations. They have to persevere. They have to actively and healthily rebuild their communities. If an individual is doing that, they have to check their friends and family who aren’t. They have to avoid all the traps set for them (police, financial sucks, etc.) They have to seek out mental health help.

I repeat - they have got to be told. No more excuses. The transatlantic slave trade absolutely sucked, as did Jim Crow, as did all the other more stealth roadblocks implemented everywhere. Now we have to move on and rebuild.

[–]SearchLightsIncFDS Apprentice 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I dont disagree with what you're saying for sure and honestly as a white person, just made me uncomfortable to hear the caller specifically call out black men - like other men aren't out there abandoning their families or using pick up "artistry" to gaslight and abuse women - Here's my problem, men love to compartmentalize themselves so they can say "Not all men" and ive seen this on discussions about paedophilia rings. In the r.uk sub, you'll see every now and again a media post about a bunch of minority men who have been convicted of organised paedophilia and the white men love to come in and say shit like "Oh, the media wont admit its a cultural problem among those men (islamic blah blah)" and as a woman i just sit there stunned because white men (men of any ethnic, socio-economic, religion etc) are capable and do engage in paedophilia both as individuals and in some cases, rings. But they LOVE LOVE LOVE to deflect with the "not all men" bs "Just these men" and this caller gives me the "not all men" vibes.

I do not wish to discount at all what you're saying - Your experience is 100% valid, im just cautious of what the caller is doing is all.

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No, you're actually making excuses for black men because you're uncomfortable with holding black men accountable for their behavior towards black women.

Nope. What you're missing here is that I hold men accountable based on the fact that they are men, not the colour of their skin or race.

We understand women like yourself

Careful now, you're really starting to bug me with the way your trying to talk down my opinion because you refuse to see what im saying.

as tireless activists for WWs safety and interests

By advocating against racism? Okay.

and then get quiet when BW state that we're having an issue as well.

Where did I deny your issue? Point it out to me?

Some cheek you have first off calling me a lib-fem when im literally spitting feathers about the "not all men" rhetoric. Second to that, to start throwing around accusations that I only give a shit about "WW" safety and interest purely because i said men being assholes was a male thing and not diluted by race.

Not often ive had to call it out on this sub but you're being pretty fucking defensive when ive done nothing but had an opinion you disagreed with. It's fine that you disagree but to call me lib-fem and say that i only care about white women is out of order, gonna have to ask you to stop talking out of your ass.

[–]asocialsocialiteFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You:

Nope. What you're missing here is that I hold men accountable based on the fact that they are men, not the colour of their skin or race.

Also you:

Its not a race thing, we know that the reason's for people not having families and such vary and are not down to such factors as race/colour of skin. I am related to white males who are absent fathers, its a misguided ego thing imo, people that lack the emotional depth to be parents, despite obstacles and pressure.

Also you:

While I will not disagree with the statisitics, we know its really not as clear cut as that, statistically black people make much less money than white counterparts and poverty fuels the breakdown of families, relationships, education attainment and life opportunities while also driving up mental health issues for all involved. Just thought it was a bit cocky how the caller was like "Its a black problem" when (i think) its a problem with men being unable to emotionally navigate the world in a healthy way.

But then you have the temerity to say that your refusal to call black men out on their behaviors is because you're standing against racism, even as black women are saying that this is a problem that we're having, and the white male caller stated the same thing. This is exactly lib-fem logic, saying "Well, what about the poverty of black men/they operate on different morals" versus the same racism and sexism that black women are also dealing with yet interestingly we still manage to handle it differently.

If you don't understand something as 101-level as intersectionality, this is why you are getting called a libfem. It is more important for you to be a good ally to everyone else except for black women and this is why you are getting called out. I've heard your talking points a million times. Every black woman has. We know that white men will talk down on black men to make themselves feel and look better. I'm telling you as a black woman that what you're doing is telling black women that "Well, white men are racist, but at least try to understand black male misogyny and actual violence towards black women."

Ergo, making excuses for it.

If you want to be a good ally? Start by not talking and actually listening to black women. Your need to defend black men from white men falls on deaf ears, especially with black men, because all they want is pussy and to fell like they've gotten a status symbol, not because they support anything that you're truly saying.

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