1.Lots of pickmes think if they bed a man, he will fall in love with them. No absolutely not! Simple look at datingadvice subreddit will tell you about pickmes who sleep with men to get their love. They are naive, manipulated by men lying.

If you offer sex, he will stay around just for sex! The moment he gets better sex elsewhere, he's gone! Puff!

Men do not value sex in the way women do. They value sex base on: ease of acquiring (is she ready everytime?), degrading sex (is she willing to swallow?), no reciprocation (she sucks dick but doesn't ask for tongue), upfront cost (this is where hookers lose!).

Competing in this game is lost cause for a woman. You will never win and you shouldn't strive to win in this selfsaboting competition.

2.Men do not fall in love through sex, it's a lie sold by men. Many men will tell you, I need sex to fall in love or sex to feel you or similar bullshit.

3.Most of us women have power of inhibition. We do not become thirsty to the point we beg sex from a man. This is not true for man as evident from tinder and messaging apps where they spam random woman asking for sex.

4.Most men in manosphere claim that they do not like women or their personalities but just stay around and listen because they want sex. If most men are like this, you must not mistake "interest" for "commitment" or "love". They are following a script to fake interest.

5.Women have better ability to cut their loses. Men develop love and attachment through efforts and working hard for it. This is why they overwork themselves to death and still stick to those industry where there is no work life balance. Look into sunk cost fallacy on Wikipedia. Once they put huge amount of efforts, there is more probability of commitment and love.

So what to do?

Make him wait for sex for months and months, close to 8 months. By this time even the most "dedicated player" would have given up only the man who truly loves or likes your personality and likes spending time with you or listening to you will stick.

How does a man responds to this challenge? Either he will think it's not worth waiting with each passing day. He will only overcome it if he thinks you are valuable as a person without sex and then you'll be lot more valuable to him with sex! A male responds to this challenge with either doubling down or giving up. That's the true hallmark of alpha male! Not some muscles (gained through steroid/growth hormone) or money (acquired through deceit or illicit activity or stealing from workers) or looks (through genetic lottery which doesn't say much about his character).

Also after he gets sex, he will think "oh this girl made me wait 8 months!!!, pretty sure no other man will wait that long and this means she will not leave me for other man or she will not sleep around and definitely my girl is not a slut!" and this creates huge value spikes in male brain.

And while making him wait, look out for the efforts he makes. Does his interest level drop? Is he less enthusiastic about you? Has he become a robot? These all signal that he just wants sex.

Do not become free hooker for these men! Hookers atleast make money, you are losing your time and efforts without getting anything back.