Never settle for less. Know your worth.

FrequentPoetry · 2020-10-23T16:40:40+00:00

to be honest I just feel grossed out by women who do everything for men and treat men like children. It makes me wanna shake their shoulders and say "stop it!". Like your partner isn't a child, stop treating him like one.

19Bubbles98 · 2020-10-23T18:40:06+00:00

Whenever someone says A man will change for the right woman my eye twitches a lil. Because no, he won't. If a man is almost 30 and he is still playing his dirty little games then leave him and don't think he will change if you do because he will be the same old joe 10 years in the future.

Karolin99_Ger · 2020-10-23T17:09:15+00:00

This is so True! Never entertain lvm like that!! Not with any part of your life

Mysterious_Midnight7 · 2020-10-23T22:07:11+00:00

Me, me, me, me, me. I'd make a succulent dinner along with a special dessert, only for him to wake up in a bad mood for no reason and talk to me like shit. And then in a week or two, I'd do it again! *insert clown honks*

livefree62 · 2020-10-23T20:27:58+00:00

So true. But I don’t even believe in “treating them how they treat you” either. If it’s not mutual kindness and respect, I don’t want it.

jchvrxo_ · 2020-10-24T03:15:59+00:00

I used to give unconditional love to the ex who cheated on me probably more than I knew, started cooking for him, go to his house more just because it was “more convenient” for him (we lived 10 mins btw), I got close to his mother and sister (they loveeeed me), sex probably 4-5x a day, I used to buy him clothes too, because silly little me believed that the more I could love him the more he would realize my worth and guess what he told me when I asked him why can’t all of this be reciprocated back? “All of this doesn’t matter” “the bad outweighs the good” “if you weren’t so jealous, I would do xyz” this boy disrespected me, belittled me, manipulated the hell out of me and gaslighted me til I no longer couldn’t put up with it anymore. Now the love I gave him, I’m giving it to myself 100x harder then I ever will to anyone ever again.

DaisyDooDrops · 2020-10-23T18:16:34+00:00

I like the sentiment, but there’s no guarantee that a man will “change” if the woman suddenly stops doing all that for him. Many times, women WILL stop and then get abused into doing those things again. If a man treats a woman like shit after she bends over backwards to please him, that’s a problem with the man. The answer here is ALWAYS to leave and block as soon as you can when people don’t appreciate you or see your worth.

Throwitaway_72946 · 2020-10-23T22:38:22+00:00

I love this woman, I follow her insta too. She calls men out for their BS, she bursts the bubble for ladies trying their mental gymnastics, she doesn't sugar coat because honestly, the message gets lost in translation when you sugar coat.

RavenKlaw16 · 2020-10-24T04:29:12+00:00

Unfortunately, the reality is that he won’t change if he needs to be rewarded for being a decent human being.

Title	Never settle for less. Know your worth.
Author	llii--
Upvotes	947
Comments	17
Date	October 23, 2020 4:32 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/jgqiwd/never_settle_for_less_know_your_worth/
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