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[–]ceilingkatwatchesusFDS Disciple45 points46 points47 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Gurl....$50
[–]gahbyFDS Newbie[S] 23 points24 points25 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She claims she saw the ring
[–]husheveryoneFDS Apprentice8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sis watched a videotape she shouldn’t have.
[–]SarcasmSlideFDS Disciple108 points109 points110 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
He doesn’t have a ring. What he has a is a woman with no self-esteem who’s willing to accept a gaslighting piece of shit into her house and into her womb.
Ladies: if he wants to marry you, HE WILL ASK. He ain’t got no problem asking to fuck you or asking you to move in with his stupid ass. He knows how to speak. In fact, he’s speaking loud-and-fucking-clear.
NO NO NO.
[–]gahbyFDS Newbie[S] 38 points39 points40 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
People in the comments were surprisingly supportive of the boyfriend, claiming he may just not be ready yet or wants to wait until he's pretty much "husband material".
[–]SarcasmSlideFDS Disciple74 points75 points76 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That’s the first thing: never be surprised at the misogyny in /r/Relationship_Advice. The place is swarming with abusers, apologists, red pillers, Pornsick losers, and their handmaidens. I send PM’s to female posters between 10-15 times a week encouraging them to visit us here. That fucking place is worse than /r/BlackPeopleTwitter some days.
[–]timetofliptablesFDS Newbie30 points31 points32 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wow. You’re doing the good work. Do they respond positively or...?
[–]SarcasmSlideFDS Disciple21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m sure a sizable portion just block me. But I have seen a few show up here. Two of them messaged me back and thanked me.
I found this place last year and it has helped me tremendously. We have a strong community here of women supporting women. I believe in that.
[–]domdittydog0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm late 🤦🏻♀️ And I've seen the ring. Our child was planned. Marriage wasn't really on the top of our to do list. We don't have a conventional relationship by any means. And if he was a piece of shit I'd have left his ass already. He knows where the door is but I'm not going to end a relationship because we aren't married on my timeline.
[–]LadyHormoneMonsterFDS Disciple42 points43 points44 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
“Wait and see” ... sounds promising 🙄
[–]purasangriaRuthless Strategist25 points26 points27 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is future faking. It's a form of narcissistic abuse.
[–]FlamingFeminist33 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
After she leaves, I bet she finds that life is a little better without him around.
[–]balladwildsFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
wait and see what ? is he stupid
[–]XylanthiusFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think it could be normal man behavior, sadly. Just because it’s normal does not mean that it is healthy by any means.
[–]azngirl7689At-Risk Pick Me Youth14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My ex did this too, he was trying to get me to pick me dance for it. Don’t get me wrong I did pick me dance for it. I definitely goofed up and I should never have pick me danced. I realized at month 26 of pick me dancing what BS it was. I now never want to see an engagement ring ever again.
[–]purasangriaRuthless Strategist6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Paging u/domdittydog...Come on over and give audience to our thoughts on the matter...
[–]luckycharmsaregodFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
this is SAD
[–]faircreditscoreFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He forgot to make the valentines Olive Garden reservation these past two years to offer his undying love and that Walmart ring because he was too busy play halo... I’m sure he will remember this next valentines.
Lmao. Sorry I'm a month late. We don't do Valentine's and we don't do Olive Garden. Walmart ring is possible 🤔 He doesn't play Halo. See this fool on 2K more 🤣🤣
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[–]purasangriaRuthless Strategist9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
When a man wants to marry you, he asks you. He doesn't say, "Wait and see!"
That's bullshit. The downvotes on this post say that the majority of women here recognize that it's bullshit.
[–]jetpatchAt-Risk Pick Me Youth1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My point is that he's just playing a game.
A proposal is literally just two people planning to get married. It's nothing more than that. If he says he wants to get married but hasn't proposed he's just stringing you along because one thing shows the other isn't true.
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[–]ceilingkatwatchesusFDS Disciple45 points46 points47 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]gahbyFDS Newbie[S] 23 points24 points25 points (2 children) | Copy Link
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[–]SarcasmSlideFDS Disciple108 points109 points110 points (5 children) | Copy Link
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[–]azngirl7689At-Risk Pick Me Youth14 points15 points16 points (1 child) | Copy Link
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