NOW THAT'S WHY WE SHOULD VET THEM

West-Cook · 2020-09-21T17:24:50+00:00

Also a warning to ladies: don’t talk about your vetting strategies (what the woman in question allegedly talked about on the 2nd date.)

Guys like this are so insecure they try to find something wrong with the woman they’re dating. “I like everything about her except that she’s attracted to the way I asked her out. So now I’m going to destroy her trust in men to prove to her just how bad men are.” ???? What is this logic.

MoonlitPinkKitten · 2020-09-21T17:01:05+00:00

God, the word "alpha male" makes me cringe so bad 😫

Adventurous_Rise_307 · 2020-09-21T17:08:12+00:00

I seriously don’t understand why beta asshats like this one seem to think that being an alpha means abusive and misogynistic. In my mind, an alpha is NOT abusive or misogynistic, he’s alpha, he doesn’t NEED to be that way to get shit done.

thighsmatch · 2020-09-21T17:29:26+00:00

This is why we DO NOT TELL MEN OUR STANDARDS, we live them, in silence. We vet relentlessly too. This is why we bail from the jump if a man asks you for a coffee or walk date or makes a dumb sexist joke, instead of explaining what we’re looking for and giving them a chance to pretend to be it with “seduction tricks” 🤮.

Dumb fox. The man either meets our standards and we smile, or they don’t and we bounce.

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-09-21T17:09:03+00:00

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pickmieshaexorcist · 2020-09-21T18:09:29+00:00

First of all, she didn’t actually use the term “alpha male” per his story. That was him putting words in her mouth. She merely expressed how refreshing it was that he’s assertive and showed her he was interested, probably because a lot of guys won’t.

Second of all, I’m willing to bet money that this guy, along with all his ilk, certainly want a woman who conforms to society’s standards of what a woman is. In both looks and level of female socialization like caretaking and emotional labor. I doubt he’s going for some androgynous woman who doesn’t shave nor believe in gender roles. But oh, he only wants her to fill her role, implying he should fill his is is a grave insult. Jesus dude, she even split the bill. She doesn’t sound THAT trad.

Thirdly, he thinks alpha males are bad for society, and yet admits utilizing supposed alpha seduction techniques to get women. He’s trying to frame it like he cares so much about the good of society but come on dude, you’re like every other PUA/red pilled piece of shit and care only about getting your dick wet.

Finally, how is she “breaking down the weak”. She just said she liked his assertiveness. And he even said she herself is a forthright and honest type. So why would it be a surprise that she likes a bolder man?

I can’t with these guys.

Edit: oh and she probably thought she was fluffing him up by cooing over how manly she found him. Unfortunately for her, his insecurity is OVER 9000.

fim_de_semana · 2020-09-21T17:14:16+00:00

That’s why women should be encouraged to do what women naturally do best: vet brutally. If she was properly vetting, she’d quickly realize this guy is no alpha male and is only good for alfafa.

luckyshvara · 2020-09-21T18:15:21+00:00

I imagine that scrotes would have gone absolutely mad, if some girl would have posted: 'I pretended to be a HVW and tricked a good guy into a date! HA HA".

NVM are hopeless.

ello-motto · 2020-09-21T17:56:50+00:00

This guy is riddled with issues and insecurities.

In the words of Olga Unleashed:

He ain't ripe, he needs a diaper. 😂

thewetdog_ · 2020-09-21T18:31:17+00:00

This is guy is nuts

sweetpotatocupcake · 2020-09-21T20:13:54+00:00

This guy is a crackhead

DoeEyedBrownSkin · 2020-09-21T21:00:58+00:00

Zero logic.

She likes you so she must be stupid? What a dumb leaf.

We cannot win with these insecure idiots.

lacyvulture · 2020-09-22T18:19:02+00:00

He’s fucked in the head. Omg scary

Title	NOW THAT'S WHY WE SHOULD VET THEM
Author	luckyshvara
Upvotes	35
Comments	17
Date	September 21, 2020 10:09 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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