Pick mes are delusional at this point. Some sisters can’t be saved 🥴

shedipity · 2021-10-26T12:58:25+00:00

Pickmes can’t call other LV women “easy” when they themselves stay with a LVM, cheating asshole who uses their body when he wants it 🤡

dembar126 · 2021-10-26T15:10:40+00:00

I don't think the person in the video is the pickme, the women she's describing are. I feel like people calling her pickmeisha didn't actually hear what she said at the end.

herbivorouscarnivore · 2021-10-26T14:39:37+00:00

I thought this video was calling out women who think they have a HVM and that those three are trying to take him away from her. lol

LingonberryMoney8466 · 2021-10-26T14:56:33+00:00

If he involves himself with these type of women he's not my man - anymore or ever! You can keep him, tysm

BlueSkiesOverLondon · 2021-10-26T12:46:57+00:00

Couple of things:

You don’t “have to” give your boyfriend or husband sex of any kind if you don’t want to, ever. So a sex worker isn’t getting paid to do what I have to do for free, her consent in being purchased whereas I (presumably) consented to sex because I wanted to have sex with that person. Why shame me for that? Decide, pickmes: is women having the sex they want because they want it sEx PoSiTiVe or not?
Side chicks and sex workers (of which strippers are a subset) are “easy” compared to almost all girlfriends (and virtually all wives) in terms of time and money. A man can’t possibly spend more than 50% of his available time with his side chick (just definitionally speaking, that would make her his main relationship lol) and in reality, since it is a hidden, lower-priority relationship it’s usually much closer to 10-20%. As for money, regular girlfriends usually ask to be taken out on expensive public dates and bought expensive presents, and they sometimes go on vacation with their men, privileges not typically available to side chicks. Wives expect to see husbands’ finances (if not combine them) so it’s even harder to spend $$$ on a side chick or sex worker if married, and even if he manages it, the bulk of his salary usually still goes to supporting his wife and their children together.

(None of this is to suggest a woman should overlook cheating in her boyfriend or husband because it only takes up a small amount of his resources, just that I think it’s obvious side chicks are getting the cheaper deal).

Own_Strength314 · 2021-10-26T11:18:22+00:00

"#Shreksworkers" is a really great hashtag!! 🤣🤣

europoor24 · 2021-10-26T12:44:23+00:00

I blame both? how about that?

jiggertheNWORD · 2021-10-26T11:32:31+00:00

There needs to be an option ‘set me on fire” to escape her negativity

Angeli_33 · 2021-10-26T11:05:50+00:00

Pickme's are delusional af.

modernmedusaa · 2021-10-26T11:44:53+00:00

First off

The video above might as well be renamed ‘reasons I am stupid part one’

Side chicks: forever deluded that we’re ‘jealous’ of them. This is how they end up being side chicks 24/7 because they refuse to get the memo on these men.

They equate being easy with winning Aka they won the race to the bottom, hardly an accomplishment. Let’s be real you have to be easy to fulfil the side plate position because no woman with respect, confidence & options will knowingly do it.

How can you be a ‘hard to get’ side plate lmfaoooo give me a BREAK. What’s ‘hard to get’ about you knowingly slotting yourself in around his girlfriend he spends 90% of his time on.

So they have to come up with these nonsensical brain dead copes to hide their embarrassment at deliberately clowning themselves & getting down on their knees to kiss the patriarchy’s ass.

They think a man using them for sex makes them some kind of Olympic gold medal pick me in high demand outcompeting the rest of women. Nope. Men aren’t fussy when it comes to casual sex. You’re in a race to the bottom & that’s nothing to feel prideful about.

They’re the clowns of the female realm who say things like ‘oh why’s your man coming to me hehe! I must have something you don’t! Teehee’

Yes it’s because you’re easy and stupid and it’s likely the girlfriend is getting sick of him & he’s jumping through all kind of hoops to keep her there but losing. So now he’s coming to you, so it hurts less when they breakup. Men don’t need a reason to cheat, they will just do it. No you’re not ‘doing something the girlfriend isn’t’…..you’re just easier to manipulate & require less effort.

He wanted to cheat & you made yourself available for the 5-10% of time he spends away from her. It’s that simple.

You are behaving just as trashy as him & you’re knowingly doing the dirty with a cheater who is most likely having sex with other insecure pick mes on the side too. So don’t be surprised when you get something. Not to mention, how you get them is how you lose them.

Also you’re happy to throw it around & put other fellow women at risk to STIs in their relationship which makes you a traitor / dick worshipper who likely doesn’t have any other friends except trashy side plate pickmeisha’s who would do you the exact same.

Absolutely no one is jealous of your ‘lifestyle’ as a side plate.

Because you’re willing to disrespect yourself & offer yourself up to a taken man, so he already knows you have low self esteem. He’s already not taking you seriously but obviously he’ll take what you’re offering cos he’s a man.

Side chicks are on the side for one reason only - they’re serving themselves on a plate quite literally. They are letting him getaway with murder.

They’re happy to take 5-10% effort & be treated like a clown. That’s why a man keeps them a ‘secret’. He is embarrassed by being seen in public with them or publicly attached to them.

Now don’t get me wrong, cheaters are low value but there’s a reason they’re keeping it hidden, because their girlfriend has self value & wouldn’t tolerate that shit. Most the time they’re doing it the girlfriend is too good for them & is on her way out & they’re running to the side plate to try & pump up their fragile ego b4 it all unravels. They just want a cushion for the fall.

But there’s no way you can be put on a pedestal if he’s keeping you a dirty secret. Why hasn’t he left the girlfriend if he’s sooooo dissatisfied because ppl with real options would just bounce already 🥴it’s unlikely she knows yet cos women have better things to do then stalk men round the clock 24/7 like they’re magical clairvoyants.

It’s hardly an accomplishment a man can find one hour away from his girlfriend to sleep with a pick me. Or find five minutes to text her & keep her off his back that week. Big wow.

Strippers- men pay to see nude women & naturally women don’t want their partner rubbing up on other women duh. Most of them doing that job are broke & don’t like the punters they entertain anyway.

‘Oh but he’s paying to see me!’ - yeah cos that’s what they paid to see…..nude women?? That’s their job.

Most the women wouldn’t be doing that job if they weren’t broke. That’s why you don’t get many educated financially sound women doing it.

Most women don’t approve it because it encourages men to objectify women.

Sex workers- lol the types of men seeing those are so low value they have to pay for sex. So we’re hardly jealous of the failure men they’re having to service, in fact we feel bad for them. Sex work is a dangerous job where you’re constantly at risk to STIs & being choked to death or sex trafficked by random creeps. Most times they want to force them to do acts other women aren’t willing to. Because they’re degrading.

So that concludes that.

I just don’t understand why this woman seems impressed by men objectifying women & tries to make it our fault somehow. The undertone is women aren’t doing enough…lol most women are doing too much which is why they stopped doing it but the guy has been lying to them about his intentions, personality, investment etc that’s the only reason he got her there. And the point he’s ‘dissatisfied’ is the point she’s wising up & his ego is bruised.

A lot of men think they’re so slick at manipulating women & so high value a woman will put up with their cheating & their ego gets slammed right back down to Earth when they realise they’re not. That’s why they run to some Pickmeisha with their bruised ego to cushion the fall. Cos they know she’ll swallow their lies.

Also most these cheating men are jumping through hoops not to be caught - why if they’re so unhappy? I wouldn’t jump through hoops to save something I don’t want. Cos they know the girlfriend would bounce if she found out & move on quite easily.

They will test a woman & when they find out she’s not going to look the other way, they will line up their ducks b4 the breakup. Cos they want to catch her by surprise hoping she’ll run back all lonely & hurt.

Most times they are jumping through hoops lovebombing her/ gaslighting her trying to stop her from leaving buying her gifts etc - so if she was so low value to him why he’s still spending 90% of his time, energy & money there? 🤡 why? Make it make sense.

Doesn’t that say something about him? Why you plundering so much effort into someone you blatantly don’t want? He can’t be that confident he can do better or have that great options whilst single. Why would he not take the chance to bounce when she wanted to breakup? Because he didn’t want to. He wanted to get his cake & eat it. He wanted to have control, spite her and make her feel rejected.

That’s why they will aggressively deny the cheating even when the woman added the situation up by herself & is leaving- because they’re hoping they can keep a future door open by denying it. In case they can’t do better, regret it & want to go back. Except the woman is more than done at that point. He’s massively overestimated himself.

And I just think if they’re so loved up with the side plates why are they trying to stop the girlfriend leaving trying to convince them? It’s over, finito. Dead.

Lmao I’m supposed to believe the guy is so high value & so desirable when he’s trying to resurrect a DEAD relationship where he’s got caught red handed & had his ass handed to him?

Anyone with an ounce of dignity would just take the L & back away.

People with options would rather be single hassle free than keep a fake relationship going forever & have non stop affairs. That’s too much energy being wasted.

They aren’t leaving because they’re comfortable where they are - if they were so miserable & dissatisfied they’d just LEAVE already.

Like we know men are trash, we know they objectify women & cheat- what is your point Pickmeisha? That some women make it easier for them? Yeah we already know that. We already know most side plates knew those men were taken.

VanessaViews · 2021-10-28T18:25:39+00:00

I don't hate these women though because I don't hate women. Any girl that is knowingly a side chick I just feel sorry for.

Defiant_Marsupial123 · 2021-10-26T15:02:44+00:00

Okay, but these women are actually easier....

The quality of time spent on side chicks doesn't include a promised future, and men using money to get sex is *not* a compliment.

They aren't paying for the sex. They're paying for the women to go away and not BOTHER the dude afterwards - and that is infinitely easier than sitting down and talking to a woman for most men. It IS easier to pay a woman or reserve a timed date than to have consistent communication. The deal is that the dude gets the sex and will not "belong" to the woman.

Title	Pick mes are delusional at this point. Some sisters can’t be saved 🥴
Author	modernmedusaa
Upvotes	274
Comments	31
Date	October 26, 2021 10:35 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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