Queen mindset 👸

munakhtyler · 2021-07-08T14:32:18+00:00

Weak, pathetic males, will try to pull you down with them. Do not date them, do NOT even give them your attention. Males like this are BELOW you

sassenachpants · 2021-07-08T15:08:27+00:00

I saw something similar along the lines of not breaking yourself into bite size pieces, let them choke. These both are a whole mood.

vaguelinen · 2021-07-08T16:41:36+00:00

You’re not high maintenance, he is low effort.

I’m a little ashamed that it was my current beau who pointed that out to me because I was a bit over awed at some very basic gentlemanly behaviour and he pointed out that I’m a classy, educated and successful lady so wasn’t the bare minimum for him to respond to that?

I found FDS after I met him and have been frantically sorting myself out ever since 😂

East-Willingness513 · 2021-07-08T13:36:25+00:00

Picture this. You’re having your 1097th argument with your unemployed, narcissistic and ugly scrote bf. You’re trying to cOmMuNiCaTe with him that watching porn while you’re asleep next to him makes you feel really weird and want him to stop. He says “you’re the only girl that’s ever had a problem with it, you’re too much for me”. She hops on reddit and asks if she’s the asshole for being upset, some incels in the comments are attacking a woman who mentioned that she check out FDS, she does and her mind is blown. During the next fight, he says the same line so she hits him with the “go find less then” and grabs her stuff while he’s backtracking and lovebombing her but she knows better now. 2 years pass and she’s graduated from University with honours and THRIVING in her career at a start up, dating a seemingly HVM who doesn’t watch porn and says she’s everything he’s ever wanted and more but what she’s really won is her self love! She also finds out from word of mouth that he ex has a sexual assault allegation against him, herpes, still unemployed and living with his mum. The end 🥰

feelgoodlost_ · 2021-07-08T17:38:23+00:00

They want you to lower your standards and expectations, the bar is always high for you because you can meet his, it’s him that cannot meet yours.

...... then they come back with their tail between their legs after trying their luck with someone else that had whatever quality they claim you lacked. Never an upgrade. It works until it doesn’t, they’ll always be back. Ya just never know when, easier to block and not fret.

Know your worth, scrotes have no worth. It’s why they try so hard to break you and acquire your traits. Men are easy to come by, especially once you drop the dead weight. Most of us have no issue getting men, it’s sifting through the garbage that’s draining. Keep being you, love. Sky’s the limit. Scrotes stay at the bottom of the barrel.

Coolgirl42069nice · 2021-07-08T21:15:00+00:00

I've had so many people tell me this lol ugh I don't even wanna date at this point. I just want to be myself. Minus toxic stuff of course. But when I'm happy and being excited and stuff and you tell me Im too much or too loud or whatever it may be I'm no longer interested in being friends much less dating.

Reception_Queasy · 2021-07-08T23:13:14+00:00

Always. I'm tired of seeing men whining about gold diggers. Like dude you don't even have any gold. What exactly are you complaining about. I get too many men who will causally tell me how I have expensive tastes and no man can ever provide for me. You don't need to tell me your poor in a roundabout way. Lol.

consider-thecoconut · 2021-07-08T17:46:38+00:00

I've said this type of then to men I have dated, they always get upset instead of explorwbwhy they're treating me like they don't want or like how I am

spaghetty8 · 2021-07-08T18:58:19+00:00

I would love to use this! Thank you!

meoemeowmeowmeow · 2021-07-08T19:08:13+00:00

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

palanuik · 2021-07-09T12:44:47+00:00

I relate to this so hard!

efmesully · 2021-07-08T15:12:39+00:00

"If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best"

hw2B · 2021-07-08T15:00:42+00:00

I need this on a t-shirt as warning.

paperwasp3 · 2021-07-09T05:27:02+00:00

I always hear that I’m too much. I say Fuck you, be more!

Title	Queen mindset 👸
Author	BlueJeanMistress
Upvotes	1278
Comments	21
Date	July 8, 2021 12:19 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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