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[–]Platipus6170 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
The men say a lot of things we already knew about porn use.
My favourite 🤮 is the guy who escalated into looking at images of children, says he'd "return to it from time to time" <span class="md-spoiler-text">and then two seconds later it's revealed he had 9,000 images and videos of CP on his computer at the time of his arrest.</span>
Whatever a man says about his porn use, multiply it by a thousand.
Zero tolerance for men who use porn.
Put porn blockers on any devices your children access.
[–]iheartnoodlez22 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Thank you for the gray out! Much appreciated. 🙏🏻
[–]fak_beauty_standards144 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
most of our grandmas (if not mothers) probably never did anal (if they did it was probably rape), let alone cif atm bdsm etc.
tell me again how is the world getting better for women.
[–]Daphnetiq108 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Cif is a household cleaner and ATM is for getting cash. Please let me live in my ignorance.
Jokes aside, you are right. The wide diffusion of porn online is making weird fetishes and practices mainstream now. No child should grow up thinking that’s how people truly have sex.
[–]flower_vulva84 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I also wanted to share this but you beat me to it! 😄 This documentary and all the work that Exodus Cry does is so important. I love how they emphasize the new phenomenon of men watching cp and even becoming offenders when they don't actually fall under the definition of a p*dophile. All because men are so susceptible to the addictive escalation in porn.
I personally think that women are susceptible to the self-harm escalation in porn - the pipeline from low self-confidence / mental health (for whatever reason, including being a victim of abuse) to spanking, slapping, hair-pulling, choking, bondage, and hardcore bdsm is real. The difference is that women are more likely to harm themselves, whereas men harm others, including children, which poses a lot more of a threat to wider society.
So all this nicely highlights why we're so anti-porn-sickness on FDS.
[–]Professional-Ad-45781 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Thanks for this OP - can you recommend a youtube video that explains how women get trafficked into porn against their will and how they are mistreated? I’m looking for something to watch with my 11 year old son without explicit images. He’s not been exposed to porn yet but we’re discussing it so he’s prepared.
[–]myeggsarebig24 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I’m so happy you’re talking to him now. You’re a great mom. I’m not sure I remember what I used for my sons when they were that age, but if I remember or see something, I’ll pass it along.
[–]miss_peach9474 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Let's not forget there are boys aged 10-16 raping their younger siblings as an attempt to re enact the porn scenes
[–]myeggsarebig30 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Something less terrifying than rape happened to my son when he was 11, but still gross. His best friend had little supervision over what he watched and he thought it would be funny to reenact while my son was asleep.
[–]miss_peach9416 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
That's absolutely vile. Where was his parents
[–]myeggsarebig17 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Yeah, it was so bad we had to transfer him out of his school. The parents were asleep. They later denied that “their son would do that”.
[–]Ok_Neighborhood_697122 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
What!?
[–]miss_peach9427 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
It's mentioned in the documentary actually about halfway through
[–]exhalefierceness21 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
When I was around 5-6, I remember my cousin sleeping over one time & I know I went to bed with shorts on. In the morning I woke up in my underwear and my cousin was gone. Sometimes I wonder why I woke up like that. I’ll never forget that.
[–]miss_peach9410 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I'm so sorry 😔 smh we can't even let our children have sleepovers
[–]daisy_072041 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
https://exoduscry.com/pcnp/
Link to sign the petition!
[–]Daphnetiq18 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Thanks for the link! Done and shared!
[–]myeggsarebig34 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
This made me literally cry. I have 2 sons. They have been talked to at length and in depth about the devastating effects of porn. I think they are ok - they’re both in healthy relationships with HVW, but I’ll never really know. It’s my young nieces and nephews who will be inundated and force fed these “movies” that somehow legally get away with the promotion of violence against women because it’s categorized as porn - as if that makes it better. That makes it a million times worse, because of the anonymity of sex.
Patriarchy is so pervasive. It seeps into our children’s mind’s behind the scenes while on stage it appears that women are getting ahead. My teen niece said, like a lot of her girlfriends say, “we’re not getting married, we’re gonna make the big bucks and live the single life in a big city.” Well, it’s a good thing because men still see you as an object for gratification, and it’s getting worse, not better.
And, short of all women taking this approach, to just leave the patriarchal mindset of love and marriage in the dust by rejecting it, I don’t see much changing.
I feel deflated after watching this.
[–]MACMUA16 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
We need to let kids know it’s not healthy period
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