Same girl asking when to send nudes. I cannot make this up 🤡🤦🏻‍♀️

LunarCannons · 2020-05-21T20:53:50+00:00

(LDR=Long Distance Relationship But I’m not familiar with “LT”...)

If you are in a relationship with someone who you are scared will run when you ask about the nature of the relationship... You aren’t in a relationship. You’re in a time wasting delusion.

West-Cook · 2020-05-21T22:13:34+00:00

OP’s ldr: 🚩 🚩🚩🇦🇱🇨🇳🇩🇰🇭🇰🇮🇲🇰🇬🇱🇻🇲🇦🇲🇪🇳🇴🇧🇭🚩🚩🚩

OP: “there are no red flags“

upgradingjewel · 2020-05-21T22:16:06+00:00

It’s so cringe how much of a pedestal she’s put him on...like “he’s so busy and popular and he always makes time for me” She shouldn’t feel honored that a man who seemingly wants her nudes wants to make time for her. She should expect it. Also who cares if he’s “popular?” Y’all are grown lol.

I think the fact that their exclusivity is “implied” is a red flag as well. If you’re confused about where you stand with someone and are too afraid to ask, you probably aren’t as serious with that person as you think. Plus it’s been proven that just bc a man doesn’t mention other women doesn’t mean they’re not there, especially when he lives across the ocean and you have no real way of finding out. I hope she comes to her senses a little bit (and maybe joins FDS so she can really wake up 👀). International LDRs are always risky, not to mention traveling will be out of the question for a while so I don’t understand why she would be hung up on this mans...

DoeEyedBrownSkin · 2020-05-21T21:43:39+00:00

Poor girl. She'll learn. I'm actually glad it's a LDR so that he is less likely to infect her with his STDs.

hyacinthgirl95 · 2020-05-21T20:46:39+00:00

Ewww. Her desperation is embarrassing.

RedzerBoop · 2020-05-21T21:50:51+00:00

I'm curious about people's thoughts here on the exclusivity thing.. yes it's important that it's talked about and you're not strung along, but equally.. narcs tend to love bomb and lock you down early. My last asked me to be his gf 5 dates in and I remember all my friends being like tooooo early. How the flip are you supposed to balance.

theglossiernerd · 2020-05-22T19:17:07+00:00

My breaking point was being told for 6 months by this guy who I held up on this giant pedestal that he “wanted a relationship” but wasn’t “ready” because he was so torn up by his ex and was depressed etc.

Guess who fucking texted me to say he wouldn’t be continuing relations with me because he had been talking to a girl for a WEEK and intended on pursuing a relationship with her?!?!

Proof that when a guy wants to make you his girlfriend nothing will stop him, not a previous heartbreak, “not being ready,” etc.

Title	Same girl asking when to send nudes. I cannot make this up 🤡🤦🏻‍♀️
Author	DoeEyedBrownSkin
Upvotes	26
Comments	22
Date	May 21, 2020 8:40 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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