She's being told "communicate" when really she needs to drop them both. Source in the comments

GrapeJuiceEnthusiast · 2020-12-12T22:13:02+00:00

I just want to comment "hun, you've been dating for 2 months - he's not your other half. You can dump him" but I know I'll be down voted. They are both acting extremely inappropriately.

souredskittles · 2020-12-12T22:16:06+00:00

PM’d her. She’s really young, just how her post is written I have a feeling she won’t take reasonable advice 🤷‍♀️

frustratedmarxistfem · 2020-12-12T22:56:46+00:00

Does anyone else think it's weird that women are so conditioned to be accessories to men their whole life that a 17 year old girl would be looking for ways to "make it work". Good lord you arent even an adult yet and already worried about keeping a relationship together. Let him go, who cares? You're not going to marry him in any universe so why even spend the time doing this

Unlikely-Marzipan · 2020-12-12T23:01:11+00:00

It's so bizarre how underrated cutting people off and never speaking to them again is.

If they do it to you once, they only WON'T do it again because they can't "get away with it."

iggypooop · 2020-12-12T23:06:33+00:00

There's no need to go through any of this at 17.

SwirlyButterfly · 2020-12-12T23:21:10+00:00

Oh, to be 17 again and convinced that my toxic, cheating boyfriend was my "twin flame". I honestly hate the whole idea of Twin Flames as the description behind it is that an exciting, toxic, hot and cold relationship that leaves you heartbroken is actually your "OtHeR HaLf". It's just another thing that convinces young women to stay in abusive relationship.

biggestsigh · 2020-12-12T22:10:13+00:00

She really shouldn't have to tell her boyfriend or her best friend not to third wheel her. They are like "twins". Nah, sis.

Please feel free to give her advice because telling her boyfriend how she feels is such bullshit advice. She's young and doesn't know any better. She wants to be a cool girlfriend but this is exactly why you don't.

Source:

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/kbw69l/i_think_my_best_friend_is_falling_for_my_boyfriend/

spicyspa · 2020-12-13T06:07:30+00:00

She should realize that two trash cans are taking themselves out to the garbage and she should thank them for that!

Title	She's being told "communicate" when really she needs to drop them both. Source in the comments
Author	biggestsigh
Upvotes	89
Comments	28
Date	December 12, 2020 10:07 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/kby3al/shes_being_told_communicate_when_really_she_needs/
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