The majority of relationship advice posts on Reddit are written by forever-gfs and pickmeishas wondering and analyzing why their dates/partners are being mean, rude, sending mixed signals, or not committing. These women self-blame and take it upon themselves to figure a man out.

Stop wasting time psychoanalyzing losers, and start matching their energy and then cutting them off. Leave the psychoanalysis and therapy to their mommies and therapists. You can’t fix a lack of effort or his confusion. That’s a *him* problem, not a *you* problem. Your job is to vet, cut off LVM, and keep your standards high. Not to figure out why he is being inconsistent.

Your time is precious.