TL/DR: He wanted a doctor to cut me open so we can see if I am infertile and he can go raw on me.
Basically my mom never told me she got it as well until I had a series of very painful periods. Maybe she forgot? Idk. I went to see a gyno and got it checked out. Fortunately for me I am getting treated now and not in pain anymore, however I might have trouble getting pregnant because of the scar tissue. They are not sure and I would have to have surgery so they can see what's up basically.
I made the grave mistake to tell this to a potential bf. And oh boy was he happy about it. He got very excited about the possiblity of not having to worry about me getting pregnant... Yay! Seriously how lucky must I be that people can go raw on me. Worth the pain!!! /s
So I slowed him down and explained that this is only a possibility not a certainty. Maybe everything is fine down there. I told him all that I wrote above... so he asked if they can't just cut me open and look to make sure. Oh, not to remove the scar tissue or something like this. No no. Just to look if the scaring made me infertile.
At that time I just wanted to tell somebody because it was a recent diagnosis and I needed to talk about this to somebody. Hell NO. Never again. I got so disgusted. I seriously had to explain to this idiot that no doctor is going to schedule a surgery just to look if my bf can go without a condom. Obviously?! What was he even thinking? This is a health issue to me not his porn fantasy coming true. Scrotes will never care about your pain, they only see advantages for themselves.
NEVER share too much about yourself. I had to learn this the hard way. In my head I always thought I had an outgoing bubbly personality that just loved to share my life with my friends and people who are close to me. But in reality I just made myself vulnerable. People WILL take advantage of information like this if they find out about it.
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