This comic changed my life

Ok-Name-8619 · 2020-11-30T23:43:54+00:00

The post about the woman who doesn’t want to have sex with her boyfriend reminded me of this.

vitryolic · 2020-12-01T00:43:19+00:00

My personal experience has been varied. I wasn’t sexually attracted anymore as there were deeper emotional problems in our relationship that I was not ready to admit to yet, and this was subconsciously affecting my desire with him. My libido was fine away from him. It was my therapist who helped me discover this and said it’s very common for emotional neglect to translate to lack of sexual fulfilment.

I would suggest to women, try to objectively separate your libido from your partner, and rule out any medical issues, then you can really assess whether it’s personal, your relationship or something else. And please always remember low libido is not a reflection on your worth and will not last forever.

yesmme · 2020-12-01T00:41:49+00:00

When I told my gyno at 16 years old that sex hurt for me no matter how much I tried to relax or drink water, she said that when we have sex with someone who we really want to have sex with, our vaginas will be more than accommodating.

My boyfriend at the time is a rapist and a cheater. (Notice that I kept that in the present tense?)

Sage_Planter · 2020-12-01T00:55:35+00:00

I remember freaking out at 24 because I lost interest in sex with my boyfriend. I thought that was it for me...

This comic was true for me. Deep down, I wasn't into him, but I wasn't ready to admit that to myself yet.

Ok_Ad_67 · 2020-12-01T02:19:29+00:00

r/deadbedrooms in a nutshell.

Ok-Name-8619 · 2020-12-01T00:50:39+00:00

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Mysterious_Midnight7 · 2020-12-01T00:50:40+00:00

I'm TRIGGERED

Bubbly-Manufacturer · 2020-12-01T02:04:01+00:00

This was me. I thought my hormones were f’in me up. And I was gonna go to a gyno and do all sorts of tests. There’s nothing wrong with me.

to_learn_to_fly · 2020-12-01T09:17:11+00:00

My first relationship in a nutshell. It lasted 5 years (!) and I almost married him. Gosh, young girls really need mentoring from more experienced women.

late4church_ · 2020-12-01T10:59:42+00:00

Uhg. When I was married I blamed it on everything else. Birth control. The fact I had moved to his country and was depressed there. In reality it was because when I met him he was on a pedestal to 20yo me. And during our marriage I levelled up so much higher and became in myself everything I admired that I thought he was. I fell out of love with him and no longer saw a future as I felt I was a HVW with a LVM (and when we met he was HV who turned into LV by comparison to my level up).

I felt guilty for years for leaving and it wasn’t until this group that helped me release that guilt. Not even therapy helped me as much as FDS. Love you ladies.

warinmymind94 · 2020-12-01T09:26:58+00:00

facts. just leave though.

Unfit_Needleworker · 2020-12-01T00:08:29+00:00

Can we get one with a wise woman??

Solid-Liquid · 2020-12-01T16:45:32+00:00

This was me. It took him asking when my day off was so I could come over his house to fuck him, that made me see he only wanted me for sex after not seeing me for 4 months.

Hard pill to swallow but I never enjoyed the sex. It was selfish and I had to bring up the fact that I was not having an orgasm to him. He thought I got turned on by giving him a blowjob and pleasing him, probably because that’s what happens in porn

Title	This comic changed my life
Author	Ok-Name-8619
Upvotes	948
Comments	33
Date	November 30, 2020 11:39 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/k48e02/this_comic_changed_my_life/
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