Valentines Day disappointment

superderpina_ · 2021-02-14T19:05:36+00:00

You know what to do, sis.

souredskittles · 2021-02-14T19:27:55+00:00

Just gross. He ain’t the one.

spinsterchachkies · 2021-02-14T20:02:36+00:00

Heaven forbid you have a birthday in February!!! The Low Value Man with say this one date counts for both.

👎🏻

If you want better, you dump him.

ironglaciers · 2021-02-14T19:48:08+00:00

Love isn't transactional like this.

companyofwolves · 2021-02-14T21:33:01+00:00

He ain't the one, sis.

And I know that women come here and complain about the LV things their men do only to receive "dump him" messages and then proceed to not do that. Maybe you'll try to reason "oh well, it's just one day compared against all the other days".

So ignoring that, I wanna ask you: is his treatment of you acceptable? Do you really want to hook a future to someone who can't even be bothered to make very simple, twice-an-entire-year gestures? Is any of this what you dream about for your future?

missgirl649 · 2021-02-14T19:26:59+00:00

That sounds incredibly transactional and I'm sorry you have to deal with that. You shouldn't "have" to plan anything on a day when your boyfriends supposed to show his appreciation for you, just because he took you on a date earlier (something he should've done anyway).

sagicorn2791 · 2021-02-14T20:26:13+00:00

You should aim for someone who aspires to treat you like a queen 365 days of the year.

firewithin89 · 2021-02-14T19:23:23+00:00

I’m so sorry. You definitely deserve so much more!! Block and delete sis. You know you’re more worthy of this treatment by a lvm.

skyerippa · 2021-02-15T01:23:59+00:00

Tell him you aren't having sex this month cause you already did last month. Watch him freak out then be like just kidding baby.. and dump his ass

MomNateChloe · 2021-02-14T21:38:19+00:00

Total scrote! May this be the last Valentine’s Day you give him the time of day!

staywiththecrown · 2021-02-15T02:53:55+00:00

Dump him. Men like this keep track of their "kindness", which are really strings-attached favors, so you need to leave. That shit is toxic.

Edit: grammar

ReignOnYou95 · 2021-02-14T23:42:24+00:00

A guy who wants to make you happy and satisfied will definitely do the bare minimum of planning and taking you out on dates on your birthday and valentines with no problem. Theyre out there. You deserve better.

flowers4u · 2021-02-14T22:25:37+00:00

Thank you, next. What a tool.

Austenma · 2021-02-15T04:11:05+00:00

Keeping score is lvm. think about how much happier you will be when you find someone who isn't petty.

SkiesEclipse · 2021-02-15T05:34:13+00:00

Don’t marry a guy that views planning a date as a chore.

PhoridayThe13th · 2021-02-14T22:19:29+00:00

I don’t even LIKE Valentine’s Day. It’s cheesy, and designed to sell stuff. But my hubby never forgot to buy flowers, candy, and a gift. For me. For my Mum and my MIL. For our daughter. It meant a lot to me that he cared that much. What’s with men who can’t show caring or muster the energy to plan things?

It’s not difficult. It’s about care and acknowledgement. Not so much about a specific gift or gesture. They don’t show care! It’s offensive. Give a fuck, or get out.

PhilosophyCharming77 · 2021-02-15T05:39:44+00:00

“I took you on a date a week ago so I don’t need to do anything now on a holiday meant to appreciate love?” Boy, bye.

2021-02-15T08:24:43+00:00

Breaking up with someone you love is hard. But you know what to do.

pinkcloudzzz · 2021-02-15T08:42:14+00:00

Nah. Leave sis

missliberia · 2021-02-14T23:16:38+00:00

You are not asking for too much. Fuck his dad....just kidding 😋.

Title	Valentines Day disappointment
Author	George_Dubyah_Bush
Upvotes	245
Comments	23
Date	February 14, 2021 5:42 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ljt4ee/valentines_day_disappointment/
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