As in it’s 5pm and a man asked me to dinner at 7pm. Am I wrong for thinking that’s low effort and declining the offer. Let me add this would be a first date and we actually made plans for Tomorrow, he hasn’t mentioned those so I don’t know if he forgot or what. My BFF says I’m being too high maintenance but then again she loves LVM, I know y’all will steer me in the right direction.

I had already told him prior I was planning on relaxing at home tonight so I feel like he doesn’t respect that and I also don’t like appearing too readily available.