So, it has probably been 2 years ago that this guy started messaging me on POF. He was kind of pushy and wanted to hang out, but at that time I don't think I really knew what I wanted and he also had kids, which made me nervous. I didn't know what to do, so I blocked him because I was uncomfortable. Since then, I think I have matured quite a bit and realize finding a guy without kids at my age is going to be difficult. Nothing wrong with kids, I just have none and it would be a significant lifestyle change.

Flash forward to a few weeks ago, I was playing Pokemon Go with a friend and they invited me to a group chat on Facebook. That night I get a message from him saying "I added you to the group chat, but you have me blocked on POF. Rude." At the time I was pretty irritated about it.

So this past weekend, I was thinking about things and I felt awful for blocking him and I messaged him explaining why I did it and he apologized. We have been talking since Saturday. However, most of the convos turn sexual. Saturday night I told him that I am not after sex and that I would rather get to know someone and know we click and have things in common before jumping into bed. I am sick of the games. Monday night, he went so far as to send me a picture of his junk. 😒 No matter what I say, things turn sexual and if I say something about it, he claims to not want sex right away either.

So I guess I don't know what I am doing at this rate. I would like to go on a date or something, but it seems to be that I cannot get it through his head that I am not having sex with him anytime soon.

Any advice? 😅