This post is meant to be a little bit thought-provoking. I know that the issue of kinkshaming definitely affects both genders, but I wanted to talk about one particular "type" of kinkshaming that seem to affect men disproportionately. And I want to bring it up because I feel like it isn't talked about much and because I feel like this type of kinkshaming is accepted, even among people who otherwise condemn kinkshaming.

And that is shaming men who prefer to date/have sex with virgins. This certainly fits the Wiktionary definition of kinkshaming. It's a sexual preference that certainly doesn't harm anyone (unlike, say, paedophilia). But as far as I've noticed, in progressive societies this preference is viewed very negatively and often mocked and insulted. Yet generally the left-wing/progressive view is that people should be allowed to have and express all kinds of sexual (or non-sexual) preferences and desires.

What are your thoughts on this?