https://youtu.be/ES-SVhZKjbQ?si=8330UPIEVkVlLg-e

My god this video kind of nauseating. But he has a few good points though.

Notice these are the people always giving advice on how men should attract women. Now all of a sudden when the man listen to the advice, he some creep who is not genuine, and not being nice due the kindness of his heart.

This is why these people shouldn't give relationship advice to men at all. These are type of people to tell men they can easily attract women by having shared interests. But also calling men creepy for trying to form relationships with women they have have shared interests with.

Even when men follow this advice, society often still criticizes or ridicules them if they are not naturally conventionally attractive.

This dynamic unfairly demonizes men who try to improve themselves for social or romantic reasons, turning sincere efforts into a source of judgment.

It's this muddying of the waters that pisses me off here. The whole idea of giving men relationship advice, while telling me it's creepy to seek relationships has to end.