A gold mine

ThrowawayGhostGuy1 · 2019-08-16T04:27:38+00:00

Smart guy. These people are clueless.

tower-rounder · 2019-08-16T04:37:29+00:00

This is one of the OP's comments

Thank you for your long reply and your honest opinion! I think I just had to hear someone tell me that I am not overreacting because a few friends of mine think that I shouldn't throw a five year relationship away due to his dumb view on certain things.

Even if there were 999 comments that said he's right, OP will still look for that 1 comment to justify what she wanna do.

That hamster wheel started to spin boys.

MichaelSkarn_FBI · 2019-08-16T04:38:41+00:00

“maybe he just doesn't want to marry ME because I'm not the right one for him.”

And here we see one of the core problems in our society/culture. The idea that people have bought in to of the “soul mate”. The “one”. The happily ever after fairy tale.

Darth_Horseman · 2019-08-16T05:13:54+00:00

I have nothing but respect for that man

Chad_Thunderfist · 2019-08-16T05:51:51+00:00

Those fucking comments trying to justify HER side though lol

Colvin76 · 2019-08-16T06:05:02+00:00

Holy shit the comments 🤡

48LawsOfFlour · 2019-08-16T06:09:40+00:00

Incentives don't have anything to do with your motives or feelings. The system heavily incentivizes screwing the guy over completely.

Would you play on a game show where your S/O got money for shocking you?

Yeah, true love might keep her from doing it. But why play the game? Why agree to a set of incentives that rewards her for hurting you? It's not about whether or not she's a good person. It's about how the system is set up.

_degenerategambler · 2019-08-16T06:58:35+00:00

Update: got my replies deleted for arguing that he's NOT a misogynist.

These people DO deserve a curbstomp by their sexist muslim overlords......they'll shut up and take it because "muh racism".

Cizzar · 2019-08-16T07:18:36+00:00

He could be the perfect man but since he doesn't want to sign a contract that legally allows her to ruin his life, he is now literally worse than Hitler ...

bfte2 · 2019-08-16T06:01:00+00:00

I started reading the replies there and my IQ started dropping sharply. "Let's break this down!"... Had to close it.

[deleted] · 2019-08-16T06:08:44+00:00

Interesting that almost 99% of the comments say he's a misogynistic POS. No wonder that if you refuse to pay women money in a marriage it's co sidered a felony by the law (under financial abuse)

user_miki · 2019-08-16T07:15:55+00:00

I was always puzzled how women bring love in marriage that is legal binding contract.If you love you can stay without that piece of paper.The problem is power the power that contract gives you over the other person.

Another issue I see comments for that women that say he is comfortable like that,and he want to keep her around for sex.

So marriage that piece of paper is supposed to take away your comfort and to receive less sex so before marriage was a fake and after comes the reality to bite you in the ass.So what really this paper will change for 2 people that love each other as they say .Again the balance of power is changed, not the supposed "love".

I believe many women want marriage faster because they cannot keep that girlfriend mask forever they want to be normal as they are, not faking it waiting to be proposed.After that they can be relieved and drop the mask as they got the power over that man.

Onlymgtow88 · 2019-08-16T05:32:35+00:00

“My psychic who I pay 490$ an hour with your money says I deserve a wealthier man”

Krazyrobus · 2019-08-16T06:21:19+00:00

I love these kinds of threads, I can just read the comments and chuckle to myself.

SamsAdvice · 2019-08-16T07:41:12+00:00

If you love him, you should be happy being in a relationship long term w/o signing a contract.

Flesh_Pillow5 · 2019-08-16T06:33:55+00:00

Apart from his awareness of the bias in the family court. His a good simp. Hahaha the tides are changing. Mgtow has the young. We have an undeniable influence on the hearts and minds of young men simply because We state the truth.

gtowerthrowaway · 2019-08-16T06:37:04+00:00

All the comments are essentially NAWALT.

Kotaro-Atani · 2019-08-16T10:56:17+00:00

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Azuzu88 · 2019-08-16T10:15:15+00:00

The question for me is why her desire to be married is more important than his desire not to be? His reasoning is that he can be screwed over during a divorce, her reasoning is that its tradition. Which if those is the most stupid? Also, fuck those saying that hes wrong because it shows that he doesn't trust her. All of those people that get divorced every year got married thinking that they wouldn't and trusting each other. When money is involved people get crazy, and that's only amplified by the hurt feelings during divorce.

slimeyslime123 · 2019-08-16T10:49:46+00:00

I legitimately thought this was about me. Me and my GF are 22 and we've had this same discussion with the same outcome.

Qlight123 · 2019-08-16T12:02:20+00:00

Look at the comments, we did it boys, we saved another one!

FuckBeingDoxxed · 2019-08-16T15:23:59+00:00

It's not and they shouldn't really be if they screw over a party. It's one thing to agree in a prenup that "this couch was mine before the marriage and you will recognize it as so." Or "if you cheat I get the blender." But "All the assets will be mine in the end," no. But good news, men actually benefit financially from divorce while women sink economically.

LOL. This goes beyond clown world

Simononhisway · 2019-08-16T05:07:12+00:00

A gold mine full of gold diggers 🤫🤣

gprime · 2019-08-16T14:49:41+00:00

Since the OP was removed, to read it: https://snew.notabug.io/r/relationships/comments/cqvqsp/my_boyfriend_22m_doesnt_want_to_marry_me_22f/

AeternusDoleo · 2019-08-16T07:48:59+00:00

So tempted to post there that this is a simple fact - if relationships collapse, and 4 out of 10 do, then the primary provider is the one who is platonically screwed. So it is a valid concern, one that a prenup will not always cover. The boyfriend sounds like a purple piller...

hl100orsmth · 2019-08-16T08:26:20+00:00

It's removed, any archive? I see a comment quoting the original text, and based on that, I think the guy is one of us.

He is one of us!

Shnook82 · 2019-08-16T09:46:10+00:00

Fucking awful comments in that thread. The projection from the women there... stopped reading when one was talking about him having a "backup plan". That's what 99% of women have, and 2% of men.

Kotaro-Atani · 2019-08-16T12:24:10+00:00

My new rule is Easy, you want to Marry me, the Woman pays me a Dowry, $500k deposit to the Cayman Islands /or some other bank outside the USA that they can never touch or see ever again, this is my Security that if you Divorce rape me in the Future, I can recover financially. If the Female cannot pay the Fee, then no Marriage. I am worth that much in resources, actually More..

shun2311 · 2019-08-16T12:46:34+00:00

Dude's a MGTOW, those simps in the sub are clueless, women change after they get married, that's what my uncle told me

mimiczx · 2019-08-16T07:00:43+00:00

Straightforward statement... So yeah... 😒

Revorob · 2019-08-16T10:13:31+00:00

And he is right too!

MC_A-ron · 2019-08-16T16:43:46+00:00

u/_cha_cha_real_smooth

In case you want to toss out the BS excuses everyone else provided, and maybe try to understand where your boyfriend is coming from.

Marriage is literally a lose-lose situation for men. For some reason we're denigrated by society when we decide we don't want to chance it and play that game.

BlasphemousMGTOW · 2019-08-16T19:36:15+00:00

Give that man a medal

Safe_Dentist · 2019-08-16T22:34:29+00:00

No worries for her - so much virtue signalling cucks there, replacement could be found in minutes...

Title	A gold mine
Author	UnfoundHound
Upvotes	132
Comments	56
Date	August 16, 2019 4:23 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/cr19fj/a_gold_mine/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/a-gold-mine.409542 https://theredarchive.com/post/409542

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