Heed the warnings from married men!

Docbear64 · 2019-07-08T19:10:37+00:00

I used to hate when I'd tell older guys how real my relationships were and how eternal my love was but they'd respond "don't rush into anything too quickly , give yourself some time " I thought that they just didn't take me , my feelings, and commitment seriously.

Now over a decade later and having experienced several relationships whenever I meet a young guy or guy who is inexperienced with women who waxes poetic I roll my eyes and tell him not to rush too quickly into anything , he should give himself some time .

the lack of male mentorship and the lack of regard for older male wisdom by young guys is a huge part in why so many mens lives get screwed up early especially by women .

Rushing into decisions just because you are technically an adult and can is probably the greatest sign of immaturity and a fantastic way to create longlasting problems early in life.

ThePlague · 2019-07-08T19:27:21+00:00

We are in a post-marriage age. There is no reason, none, for a man to get married and quite a few that make it a very poor decision.

NVCowboy · 2019-07-08T19:01:40+00:00

My only input was that my ex changed within the first month of marriage. Why wait years to reveal yourself?

devok1 · 2019-07-08T19:51:00+00:00

If you advice young men to get married , youre a fucking asshole.

LotBuilder · 2019-07-08T20:50:16+00:00

Young men think their sweet young GF that bats her eyes and pretends to let him make decisions is going to stay that way. They don’t understand what their pretty young thing will become. They don’t think that “look at her mom” applies to them. Their woman is special and their relationship is special. They don’t believe AWALT.

EvilCoyote · 2019-07-09T00:02:01+00:00

This happened to me, too. Down on my luck after graduating in the middle of the big bust, I had a blue collar job for a while. Over the course of six months, every married man in the company made up some excuse to pull me aside and, in private, tell me never to marry.

U-94 · 2019-07-08T23:25:51+00:00

I worked construction through high school every summer into college. All the older guys said the same thing. But I listened. I stayed single and have had a great time. Ya'll gotta pay attention to old men. How their lives went will be how your life will go. You're not special and reality won't bend a different direction for your future.

castlefrankie · 2019-07-08T20:40:40+00:00

I try to warn the younger men every chance I get. No expectations and no need for us to engage in a verbal confrontation

I've been there, done that. You can listen and avoid the pain or you can learn the hard way. That's YOUR choice.

bikerbomber · 2019-07-08T20:05:45+00:00

Source video?

SpinPlates · 2019-07-09T02:55:38+00:00

Same here. Late 20s. Blue collar work.

All the older guys are either divorced and broke or married and miserable.

wastelandchic · 2019-07-09T05:49:51+00:00

Let me add my voice to the chorus of older men saying don't fucking do it. Never. Been there. Been divorce raped but ex is such a lazy fuck up that the didn't even want full custody so I never had to contest that. Otherwise, it was without a doubt the worst decision of my life. Not exaggerating. THE WORST.

Bear-With-Bit · 2019-07-09T06:24:16+00:00

Ha. Mine did that change in 2 months. Marriage lasted 1 year. Best failure ever.

shun2311 · 2019-07-09T01:51:35+00:00

My uncle even tells me the same thing, it is real terrifying

livingyeet · 2019-07-09T02:50:43+00:00

But not all marriages are bad, that’s just my opinion.

greywolf1968 · 2019-07-09T08:45:50+00:00

These older men are doing the Lord's work.As others have commented , more and more men are waking up or are being woken up.If it's not older married men giving out warnings, it's divorced men telling their tales of woe. And thats before you see the appalling behaviour of women or hear the abuse of the feminists. For some men,p**sy is a hell of a drug but it does seem that the number of addicts is falling especially for those of us who have checked into rehab .

StyleandSpeed · 2019-07-09T04:07:49+00:00

This should be the primary concern. Not the divorce rape bullshit.

SoyBoySJW4life · 2019-07-09T04:14:58+00:00

What video is this from?

SniperKing97 · 2019-07-09T02:53:23+00:00

Aaron?

Title	Heed the warnings from married men!
Author	ConstantChinner
Upvotes	489
Comments	54
Date	July 8, 2019 6:08 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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