My brother got married to his girlfriend about a year ago, she is a pretty horrible person for many reasons and today was just more evidence to this. I almost never see my brother anymore, one reason for this is the fact that we now live in different cities but a bigger part of it comes from the fact that his wife does everything in her power to alienate him from his family.
The last time I saw him was about two hours on Thanksgiving and the time before that was his wedding. Well, we finally had a chance to catch up this Christmas and we decided to take this chance to play some of the old games we grew up with together. There we were, playing games, reminiscing and just enjoying each others company. It was really nice, but it only lasted about 45 minutes over all, before his wife started to get really annoyed with him, saying how "I didn't come here to watch you play video games." Another 5 minutes later and she was in full hostel mode. Keep in mind that we offered to let her join in, our mom offered to spend time with her, and she had her own family she could spend time with. None of that was enough, my brother found enjoyment without her and that got under her skin more than anything. Soon my brother stopped playing so he could spend time with his wife, the women he spends literally every single day with. The conversation we were having was over and an hour later they left together.
To me this really punctuates the reason why girls hate video games, because they bring guys a form a joy they can experience without their influences. That drives them crazy, since it means they no longer have complete control over guys.
If I'm being completely honest this whole experience has left me feeling very hurt, knowing that a chance to truly connect with and catch-up with my brother is now gone forever.
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A couple truths.
Women hate any activity that causes a man happiness, if that happiness is derived independently from her.
A Briffault corollary says that a woman will alienate a man from any friends or family, if those friends or family do not provide a benefit to her personally, such as money, entertainment, a summer house, or other value. If that group does not provide her a benefit, then that group must be alienated from the man so the group cannot offer him any benefits independent of her, nor give him social interaction outside her control that may be against her interests.
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Same goes with cults. They want to alienate you from your family so you become dependent on them and can never leave. It’s sad when you can make comparisons to dating women and being in a cult, but unfortunately that’s reality.
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there's a reason why cults are so popular with women...
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and subjugating simps the same way... lots of born again virgins are near churches and cults to score a simp for themselves
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metoo BUT at the end of the day - you have NOTHING.. just a fake happiness, fake status in some stupid game and hours wasted - imagine building a house/company with that time...
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it's all good but for example, when I play a lot, after a few days I am like - is this it??? should't I fight with my anxieties and go for something real? I don't want to put you down, I'm just curious if this life style is really legit for you..
edit: like you will regret to not fighting your anxieties at the current stage of your life...
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Happiness is merely a nervous response to hormones released when experiencing something. I can assure you the happiness you get when building a house in Minecraft is as real as the happiness you get in this world.
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yes.. but with that thinking why not taking heroin and not working, just stealing money?
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that's true but I was thinking like, at the end of your life, would you be happy for your accomplishments in minecraft..?
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well, it looks like you are on the other side already (had some big, real life achievement) so you can have better view on this subject, but since I'm on nofap, I feel like I am transforming myself like - fuck games.. I should go out and do some real world shit, you know..?
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At the same time they are sexually attracted to men who have found their own happiness independently. And they are not attracted to men who left everything behind for them. So basically women nature is not a constant thing but it works like a graph curve.
1- They see a man they feel attracted to who has their shit together, their job, their hobbies, their passions, friends, and other women.
2- They proceed to get this man for them.
3- They start to make the man spend more time with her through natural means, especially using sex, charm, and overall positive things.
4- Once they know that he is hooked, and he is happy around them (not necessarily in relationship), they can proceed to this phase 4. In phase 4 they start nagging subliminarly to make him postpone things to be with her. And they reward the man if he does.
5- This is where things get ugly. On phase 5, they have already established some power on the man's life. It was already created the precedent that he leaves other things for her. Its now the time that shit tests start like crazy, and open nagging. The man doesnt connect the dots, and because he done it in the past, and because he is hooked he tries to negotiate. Sometimes he prevails others he doesnt, but its too late. At this point only a bad break up will solve it.
6- Phase 6 is that phase where you dont want be in. She will threaten you and punish you if you dont spend time with her, and do things for her. Since you left most of your hobbies, and ditches your friends, she knows she has the power over you. This is the phase where cucks are formed. Where cheating and jealousy is used by them in your face to make turn you into a hostage. They know now that you are spineless and you depend on them. Because even if you are to rise against it, you must recover your friends, your hobbies and your own self, and at same time detoxify from all the dopamine created by being with 1 woman. Note: It is artificial to be with one woman for many days. It creates addiction and dependency. You were made to be with many women, or NONE, but never, never with just 1.
Phase 7: Here is the lowest point of the graph curve. #deadbedrooms and #openrelationship. LMAO. They sucked all life of you. And finally are looking for someone else. You only have yourself to blame. She will easily find new men, and you wont find a new woman easily because you gave up all you freedom and balls for 1 woman who's value is always going to be less than a man.
Then they repeat the cycle.
The only way to avoid it, is just pump and dump. Be 100% mgtow, be sure of yourself and your hobbies. Dont depend on nobody, not even your friends. Live and die for what you believe. Fuck many women, or go in phases of complete monk. DO NOT stay with one woman. Leave her on the first red flag, and dont tell her why. Just ghost.
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Because he was modeled after a Dutch male model, Mark Vanderloo
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there's razorbladekandy video about this phenomenon you might enjoy:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-pGIaew5OuI
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These are the kind of complaints that make MGTOW look bad.
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Yeah, you don't sound crazy or anything. Now wipe the spittle from your screen.
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