Any guy here thinking of getting into a long-term relationship should thoroughly browse these subs.

Suka87 · 2021-01-29T18:11:19+00:00

My thoughts, are that no matter what you say, the THIRST will always be there. No matter how many facts you talk about, no matter how much you tell them about femail nature, they still chase the punani. IMO, you can only go truly redpill when you've had your heart broken and actually go through this yourself. I still have urges to go out looking, but its just my nature, and its an addiction and like all drugs, we need to go cold turkey and find meaning outside of the addiction.

georeddit2018 · 2021-01-29T18:00:52+00:00

I do follow the group. Its makes me a little depressed seeing what happens to couples who were ones in love and the betrayal that occur at the end.

It's makes me think twice before getting back into another ltr or even casual fling.

kapriece · 2021-01-29T20:30:03+00:00

Just be careful out there fellas. I was once a soldier. That bitch out of the blue left with my kids and ran across country. Told me she wasn't coming back. She did this to me, a man who served this country 21 years and cared for his children. She was nice when we were dating. I didn't see any flags worth concern. We were both serving when we got married then she got out to raise the kids. This is when the crazy started, weight gain, high demands, and overall narcissism. FF now I'm divorced paying child support, no visitation due to distance, no contact bc she poisoned their minds against me, can't talk to her about ,how she is raising them, all she wanted was the money----- don't kill me over grammar but my PTSD kicked in over this shit.

Now I make more money and it's like she can sense the deposits when I'm more than 2500 miles away. Let me also add that she told me one of the children isn't mine. So I've been paying for some other dudes child and can't prove it without spending thousands of dollars on a lawyer halfway across the country. Money I'd have if it wasn't for the child support. So that's air fare for court, lawyer fees, you have to pay to the test, be able to afford taking the time off for court, and have to sue the bitch if it turns out I'm not the dad to get my money back. The laws of certain states assume children of the marriage to be yours without question and you (the man) has to prove otherwise. Now is there anyone here who wants my spot. It'll save you time getting there. I'm giving it up for free.

isisishtar · 2021-01-29T18:22:40+00:00

The real answer is to take care of yourself first. Only after you have your own life in order: cash in the bank, retirement plan well underway, your life plans made and begun, all the things that are important to you addressed FIRST .... only then do you consider taking on a female companion.

When (if ever) you do that, protect all your assets. If necessary, hide them.

Having a woman around can be great. Even kids can be great. It’s possible she can be a real asset if she has a clear, constructive and pro-social focus in life. But more often, after the initial romantic rush wears off, she settles into being a greedy, rather smart version of a two-year-old who thinks the world revolves around her.

akihonj · 2021-01-29T18:35:17+00:00

You're right, I am also a member of the divorce men sub and I try as best as I can to offer some advice.

You'd be surprised how many men on that sub are still living the blue pilled fantasy and get right piss d off when somebody like me comes along to drop a few pills of a different colour in there or offer some advice how to make it clear they don't want to get married again.

hiddenwaitingtobefou · 2021-01-29T17:52:21+00:00

Thanks brother.

30203forever · 2021-01-29T18:09:02+00:00

Even the STRs are a loser's game nowadays. Pay as you go if you must or stay celibate if you can are the two sane options which are left for the ordinary men in the West nowadays, IMHO... P.S. Any man wanting an LTR at the time of this pandemic should have his head examined first, lol.

Imperial_Plastics · 2021-01-29T18:37:26+00:00

Watching people weaponize covid as an excuse to break custody/visitation agreements in family court has been disgusting...

little_jimmy_jackson · 2021-01-29T20:03:44+00:00

I think the greatest pain possible is being seperated from your children when you did nothing wrong. Then they pour salt into the wound by making up nonsense about you and trying to turn the children against you. Hell is likely a nicer place than that reality. Then you have to work two jobs because of alimony, child support or both.

I got a vasectomy at 20yrs old. I never wanted children & sought permanent birth control.

I live the Cosmo Kramer life! I'm out there and i'm lovin every minute of it. George Costanza is depressed about being single, Kramer doesn't even know what single is, he's too busy having fun.

Banned_BY_SOYMEN · 2021-01-29T18:06:08+00:00

The biggest problem with marriage is you cannot pull leverage where you can in an ordinary relationship. These married RP guys are fucking hilarious, but they need something to give them hope I guess.

georeddit2018 · 2021-01-29T21:11:47+00:00

One of the reason why I felt uneasy about been with my ex. We both agreed to have no kids. Then her sister gave birth to a boy and has been bothering me that she wants kids and I told her I don't. Her reply was that "if you dont want kids, I may have to start poking holes in condoms". That made me speechless.

UltimaterializerX · 2021-01-29T18:42:39+00:00

You should add r/MensRights to the list.

Those guys are so soft and so in denial that they’re basically women at this point. Some moron just tried to actually tell me that women don’t prefer alpha males and that the belief they do is an outdated societal construct. That’s the sort of mentally ill trash feminists would come up with. Of course women prefer good-looking, strong men. Just like guys are attracted to good-looking women.

Masculinity is a rarity these days, but the side effect is it’s never been easier to be a real man and get what you want if you actually are traditionally masculine. Outdated construct my fucking ass.

apexvice88 · 2021-01-29T22:50:09+00:00

I got banned from deadbedrooms for linking to this sub LOL, the reasoning was, I was talking about violence and hate speech. Go figure.

georeddit2018 · 2021-01-29T19:01:53+00:00

Stop feeding her free attention. That is all she came here for. No point arguing with her cos she won't think logically.

Ramp_Up_Then_Dump · 2021-01-29T19:50:00+00:00

Deadbedrooms were so bluepill, I want to wash my eyes

classicliberal1 · 2021-01-29T23:35:50+00:00

r/DeadBedrooms truly a depressing sub. Guys in that sub have to beg their wives for a hug.

Men in that sub should just cheat. It doesn't harm the woman one bit if her husband cheats. She still has parental certainty and clearly does not care about sexual access to her husband. The men should just have affairs. They'd probably have happier marriages to boot.

jonathaninfresno · 2021-01-29T19:17:11+00:00

I don’t have have to read the sub, the crazy modern day women ur talking about was my mother. Moved far away from dad, I had a front row pass to the fuckery. Would I continue the cycle? Nothing wrong dying alone to save a innocent life

SteveSan82 · 2021-01-29T23:36:43+00:00

Read The Rational Male before considering an LTR.

CatcherFreeman69 · 2021-01-30T05:12:16+00:00

Most guys just assume or hope that it won't happen to them and that whatever girl they care about is worth the risk. Pain is often the only capable instructor of red pill truth.

2021-01-30T06:01:52+00:00

They are all way too depressing to read and just contributes to red pill rage. We are here because we know not to make those mistakes.

tropicislandexplorer · 2021-01-29T18:18:28+00:00

I concur. Thanks for sharing these.

SinofTruth11 · 2021-01-29T21:33:41+00:00

Some can only learn the hard way and the masses of people [ irrespective of gender but including men ] are ignorant, hateful, arrogant, and foolish

OwenWentFullMGTOW · 2021-01-30T02:51:27+00:00

There's a school of thought that says women are on their best behavior (which is a completely relative thing) before you put a ring on it. So I can understand where pro-relationship MGTOW's are coming from. Just make sure to never marry or cohabitate with them and you might stand a chance of success with the LTR.

Inasmuch as they're GTOW, I have no particular criticism of their thinking. I'm not sure I agree but it doesn't rly matter what I think.

Bottom line, it's cohabitation and marriage that are the biggest risks. Whatever men want to do short of either of those things, I say let 'em do it.

NovaStorm347 · 2021-01-30T04:20:28+00:00

So glad I'm learning this info now at 17

TeddyMGTOW · 2021-01-29T19:00:49+00:00

yakubmademedoit · 2021-01-30T01:40:34+00:00

Add r/adultery to that list too. It's a parade of 'I love my husband but he doesn't give me tingles so I f*ck this guy from work' chronicles.

poison-fang-blade · 2021-01-30T04:35:16+00:00

I'm one of those, as Esther Villar said, fortunate enough to not have any "market" value, since I'm too ugly and also not rich enough for that. The more I read and hear from relationships and marriages, the more I consider myself lucky and blessed to have never gotten into any relationship. It can be lonely sometimes but it always seems to be for the best.

wannabehealthnut22 · 2021-01-29T19:22:07+00:00

Thank you for this. The dead bedroom is perfect for me.

ChocChat · 2021-01-29T22:00:50+00:00

thank you. needed this

uk-anon · 2021-01-30T08:51:04+00:00

“Difference is women don’t get together and bitch about men and scorn them”

🙄🙄🙄 you’ve clearly seen /r/femaledatingstrategy

MyNameIsJeffReddit6 · 2021-01-29T22:43:11+00:00

r/mgtow

victor_knight · 2021-01-30T01:08:40+00:00

More than that, don't lose sight of the bigger picture. The powers that be are desperately trying to slow population growth (endless growth being unsustainable and leading to many issues like climate change) and one of the subtlest yet most effect methods of doing so is female empowerment. A natural consequence of female empowerment is women having greater, if not total, control over reproduction. This not only means making abortion more widespread and easier, but also making lasting marriages (which typically results in more babies) more difficult/complicated/expensive/risky for men. To quote the late and renowned scientist, Carl Sagan (taken from his last book, ‘Billions and Billions’, published in 1997) with reference to overpopulation:

"Our job is to bring about a worldwide demographic transition and flatten out that exponential curve—by eliminating grinding poverty, making safe and effective birth control methods widely available, and extending real political power (executive, legislative, judicial, military, and in institutions influencing public opinion) to women. If we fail to bring about a worldwide demographic transition... some other process, less under our control, will do it for us."

sevensliders · 2021-01-31T07:14:48+00:00

Women here in the west are more or less done with small pockets of decency. It doesn't matter which race and ethnicity they are; feminism is rife here and it will take some time before the idea is scaled back (Don't think it will disappear).

If you still want a relationship though overseas, not only vet but move up your timetable. Feminism has reached international shores and is growing fast.

lolomotif12 · 2021-01-31T10:25:01+00:00

Whenever I get stupid thoughts I come in here to snap out of it, always works a treat haha

chals777 · 2021-01-29T21:42:16+00:00

Live in Denmark.. beat place in the west.. might change ofc

KING_CPB · 2021-01-30T01:02:45+00:00

Smart men don't get into LTR.

rookeryop · 2021-02-27T12:44:34+00:00

r/DeadBedrooms is REALLY depressing. Please don't spend more than 2 hours at a time there.

Binge, take a week break then binge again.

RockyNada · 2021-01-29T22:27:02+00:00

It’s true, numbers do not lie.. there are no unicorns but I’ll counter with this.. I’m going to have kids, and I’m not going to have them out of wedlock.. I am getting a prenuptial, and I can afford child support. So I’ll prepare for the worse and pray for the best.

Why get married, why have children? I grew up in a two parent household, and I saw the difference between my upbringing and some of my friends. I know the risk of marriage, I lived enough and saved enough. If shit goes sour I hope the prenuptial holds in court, the child support I could handle. Just like I want to get a dog and I also want kids.

It has nothing to do with thirst, I have access to a lot of women. I’m in a LTR and I’m not blinded to think she is “special”, she is just someone I get a long with.. and has all the qualities and checks all the boxes. I follow the redpill mentality even while in a relationship.

Going full MGTOW is much easier to do if you already have kids, but how about the men that want to procreate?

sad__bat · 2021-01-29T18:12:21+00:00

I think you are generalizing men and women. There’s more to people if you get to know them and not assess and judge them so quickly. Honestly, all these posts about how women are problems just sound incel to me. I thought mgtow was just men who choose a different lifestyle for themselves, not because they scorn women, but just because they want to. Sure there may be some men who feel betrayed by a woman and never return to a marriage life, but that can’t be all of you, or else you’d just all be in r/divorced. I follow and read posts here to see what men are up to when they chose this lifestyle, what hobbies they can do when they have more free time, and like all the posts are just bitching about women. And then other men chime in and agree just giving validation. Fucking get over it, not all people are as you describe. Also if this “woman” were so shitty, why would they get married in the first place? More likely is that they didn’t wait long enough for these big life changes. Both are to blame. Both willingly sign marriage paper work, both have to have sex to produce kids. If you don’t know who you’re partner is before you make these bigger decisions, she was probably never who you thought, she was probably always a bitch, they just couldn’t wait long enough to get to actually know them. There are equal amounts of men who are awful to be in a relationship with. Difference is women don’t get together and bitch about men and scorn them as a whole under the guise of wanting to take control of their life and live single. At least not as publicly as mgtow.

Any guy here thinking of getting into a long-term relationship should thoroughly browse these subs.

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