Don’t date single mothers!

atasarajedini · 2021-05-30T10:50:13+00:00

It means she's auditioning you as a potential father. Good luck, brother.

deadBeefCafe2014 · 2021-05-30T19:36:43+00:00

There would have been no date 3.

A woman who brings a toddler with her on the initial dates has something wrong upstairs.

MGTOWayoflife · 2021-05-30T11:06:35+00:00

What should I do?

There really is an epidemic of stupid idiots.

Let's see what are the options here.

A: Never speak with her again Z: Wife her up

diese1 · 2021-05-30T11:25:54+00:00

Looks like she doesn't even have a car or can pay for a babysitter, but has time to date.

SMH...

Overlordofwhatever · 2021-05-30T11:41:19+00:00

Hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha. What should I do 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

SolidFlower5312 · 2021-05-30T12:14:08+00:00

Dude should've bounced the moment the woman brought out the car seat.

sicrm · 2021-05-30T12:40:52+00:00

free meals for her kid and setting this sucker up to bond and pay child support.

givemethatrandom · 2021-05-30T12:54:36+00:00

What should I do?

You tell me, young stepdad 🤷🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

ViridianZeal · 2021-05-30T11:26:51+00:00

Date single moms all you please. Just don't delude yourself. She has kids and you better like children a lot.

The-truth-hurts1 · 2021-05-30T14:17:39+00:00

Better get used to the kid being around every day.. you can’t get one without the other m, the kid is sure to be “her world”.. paying everything for them both comes next.. at least another 15 years of that.. and when you have aid for the kids college and wedding, she’ll get her “real” dad to walk her down the aisle..

CockAFuckityFuck · 2021-05-30T16:53:20+00:00

Another 24 year old male with no idea about boundaries. Wanna bet he was raised by a single mother?

oushkul · 2021-05-30T14:19:58+00:00

Depends where you are. For some jurisdictions your willingness to support her child now may be cause for you to pay child support when you break it off.

You should have enjoyed the 1st date and driven off while she was half way to the car with the child seat on the 2nd.

mrreal01 · 2021-05-30T18:47:19+00:00

I think it’s hilarious that the guy even posted. Like run dude.

Ceruleanknight1 · 2021-05-30T16:56:57+00:00

When using dating apps way back then I matched with 2 single moms..

The 1st one lied on the pictures she posted on Tinder, she put pictures of herself when she was 19-20, when she went through pregnancy and was then 31 (...)

She got her 2 years old daughter on our 1st date, and the daughter was unbearable, wouldn't stop screaming and crying which forced us to end the date prematurely.

During the 2 hours we could talk semi peacefully she explained to me that she got pregnant by her male best friend and that the guy ran away when he learned that he was the dad and that she was not going to abort..

Like, the chinese parade is the side of a bic pen red spot next to her red flag..

The second one arrived late at the date, and 35 mins in the conversation told me "I have a feeling you dislike children, its not gonna work between us"

She just did not like the way I looked, because there was no way to pull such a conclusion when we had not talked about children.

I love children, back then I was volunteering and financing toys for an Orphanage, taking care of the youngest ones.

The guy possibly date a single mom for the 1st time and is blue pilled, lets pray for the mgtow knowledge to get to him in a way or another asap because I am sure most of us been there, I know I was at some points.

PretendFail1170 · 2021-05-30T18:21:01+00:00

He has to options.. Tell her up front its a issue or just stop asking her out. Me, i wouldn't say anything. Ghost!

princelydeeds · 2021-05-30T17:11:22+00:00

Back in the day, I had a few chicks do this to me. I was actually happy because I could shift from "date" to let's take care of the kid. The kids were usually super young, so I just changed up the dates, went to a drive thru, rented a kid movie, bought alcohol, and took the food back and everyone back to my place.

Watched movie, ate food, mom was happy, kids usually ate and went to sleep before movie was over. Placed sleeping kid in bed or on couch (whichever mom preferred). Happy mom with full belly and sleeping kid was always happy to get pounded afterwards....

I would only do this later in the evening. I wasn't trying to marry mom anyway, this made getting sex easier. A happy mother with a full belly and a peaceful content kid always gave it up as soon as the kid was down, usually she couldn't wait...

variedpageants · 2021-05-30T23:53:10+00:00

Guys, we need to be on the lookout for men who are afraid to stand up for themselves. We need to be their friend and help them to grow a spine.

"I haven't brought this up with her." Dude why?? Why are you afraid to tell a woman "no" - do you think women only fuck men who agree with them?? The exact opposite is true. This woman is probably fucking some other guy, and the guy who wrote this has probably never fucked her. And the dude she's fucking would laugh and tell her to get lost if she tried to bring her kid along.

Tell her "no." It's okay. They actually like boundaries. You'll see.

Background_Sea_1623 · 2021-05-31T09:35:40+00:00

You need to realize that single mothers and kids are a package deal. She is obviously looking for a father for her kid, and the fact that she is bringing the kid on the second date is a major red flag. Date if you want, but thr kid will bond with you and the kid will be upset if thr relation doesn't work

HLamar · 2021-05-30T20:14:00+00:00

Is the kid there when you and Ms. Ward Cleaver are doggy styling?

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MrMontanaN · 2021-05-31T07:38:36+00:00

"What should i do?" DON'T CALL HER AGAIN EVER. It's obvious she is vetting you to see if you're gonna take care of another mans child and pay her bills, she sounds broke. Focus on yourself king.

gsd805 · 2021-05-31T13:08:09+00:00

Why tf would you go on a date with a liability at the first place

Uniqueinsult · 2021-05-31T15:16:28+00:00

Let the cucking games begin.

Troutyorks · 2021-06-01T03:35:31+00:00

If a she bringing a dammed kid with her she better be taking it to the adoption center or a MF wood chipper.

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Milk_moustache · 2021-05-30T19:59:56+00:00

Dated some single mum a while back. Amazing in bed, brilliant to chat to, I thought the kid wouldn’t be an issue but it was. Some guys can handle it better than others. They’re some great women out there that just made mistakes early in

This chick though? Nah she’s looking for a father not a partner

x201s · 2021-05-30T17:33:31+00:00

Damaged goods

Terintino1090 · 2021-06-09T17:08:25+00:00

So it bothered him but he didnt bring it up and went on more dates? I really hate people smh

YrWoMeNthISWay · 2021-05-30T16:45:57+00:00

Poor beta male just has to learn the hard way like most of them I just hope he learns before he ends up marrying this leech

SS0964 · 2021-05-30T12:40:01+00:00

It means it’s time to break it off with her that’s what it means, Never date single mother’s at all, it’s just not worth it.

iMacourey · 2021-05-30T13:13:04+00:00

"What should I do?"

Run like the wind!*

*Ideally after that second date!

KUL-DANK · 2021-05-30T13:47:34+00:00

how romantic, bringing your daughter to every single date

BanMeForTalking · 2021-05-30T13:48:16+00:00

I’ll bet Reddit fucking unleashed on him about how awful he is for not wanting to step up and “be a man” or some stupid shit like that.

greencircle10 · 2021-05-30T16:26:59+00:00

guys need standards. stop just going out with any and every girl. and stop just looking for looks. Other things are more important. Like if she's a single mom, for example

theatma43 · 2021-05-30T19:29:58+00:00

Bruh

SubstantialWill2760 · 2021-05-30T17:12:05+00:00

Dump her and look for a childless woman.

red-tea-rex · 2021-05-30T18:09:35+00:00

He put up with it for 6 dates? His problem is he's thirsty. The solution is stop. Hope someone tells him that.

CriticismSmooth8952 · 2021-05-30T18:28:27+00:00

The question is: are you ready to be a father figure for her daughter? Cause if you’re not I would suggest to let know that you just want something casual and not wanting LTR. You’ll do more damage to the kid than to her when you decide to leave her cause it’s not working out

noturboyfriendsorry · 2021-05-30T23:44:36+00:00

She’s trying to get him do fatherly things with her child so she can get child support from him.

Tracker1958 · 2021-05-30T22:38:26+00:00

How do you want her to treat your kids if this goes that far,? To me this is a great sign that she is a good mother. Just think about if this was your kids.

Title	Don’t date single mothers!
Author	Protomize
Upvotes	1
Comments	72
Date	May 30, 2021 10:37 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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