First of all, hi. I am new to this sub. I don't know if I qualify as ' mgtow ' but I try to live my life my own way mostly. I would also like to say that I DO NOT hate women. Just mentioning this because I have seen a few videos about this mgtow thing and a lot of people who consider themselves ' mgtow ' seem to hate them, they kinda remind me of a male version of feminist women.

So back to the title, before I got a contract at the place I work at, some collagues kept trying to 'inform' me in a way that new/temporary workers who are not married and don't have kids are usually the first who get fired. I was working with some kind of agency that finds you temporary jobs, but you do have a chance of staying in a company if you are good (or if they like you). After the first few months it felt like some people were threatening me with all this bullshit about people getting fired for multiple reasons, but a lot of the time there was that guy who kept insisting by asking me ' when are you going to marry and have kids ? '. Am I the only one who finds it inappropriate to just ask someone this question? I consider it a private and sensitive topic which can't be answered just like that. In fact, I see more reasons to NOT have a family than have one. Ever heard of over-population? How about people who lie about who they are and end up dumping you? Or what if I had a rough time as a child so I don't wanna go through that again? Also, after I got my 1 year contract an old woman told me ' Now you have some time to marry ' as if she was telling me ' Do it or I will talk with everyone so they won't like you '. And in fact, it happens A LOT for multiple reasons. Most people talk behind my back rather than in front of me. I just wanted to do my goddamn job and not bother others, simple as that. Most of them are older than me, so they felt like they can convince me or manipulate me in a way. I just kept ignoring them and did my job. And I got the fucking contract because I did my job. There is also a lot of toxicity and bullying going on in there. You will probably tell me to find another job, which I can do. But I do like working there and the company's goal which affects the enviroment positively with their product. I just can't stand some of the people there.