Breast play

BluepillProfessor · 2015-03-23T02:03:24+00:00

By the way, bro, trust me on this if you trust me on nothing else. Breast milk tastes bad and it is gross as fuck. God I can't believe I have to say that but it is true. You are not missing out on anything.

theultmatecad · 2015-03-22T15:35:47+00:00

Go slow. You cant expect to go from dead bedroom to her being a sex toy in one night.

Read the books. Lurk. Lift. And things go nowhere but up

crayonson · 2015-03-22T15:48:58+00:00

This past week I felt like a new man with her, sexually. The sex was great, but again, lacking with anything to do with her breasts. So, the resentment feeling is coming right back strong again. What the heck should I do?

Let go of the resentment. That's the first thing.

Once you let go of the resentment, and increase your SMV by lifting, creating a frame and living for yourself, she will slowly give it to you. But it doesn't happen in a week.

Most of the men here have been trying to get X or Y or Z for awhile in bed. (That includes me, and I haven't gotten everything I want.)

This can't be negotiated. It's not fixed by one or two tricks. It's a natural result of your masculinity in relation to her feminine self. And it won't be fixed by changing relationships, because if you haven't fixed the masculinity, you'll get roadblocks from other women too.

That was a lesson I had to learn as well.

If it really is a medical issue (which I have no idea about), and you want to divorce your wife because her breasts tingle, well that's your choice.

ford_contour · 2015-03-22T13:31:12+00:00

There are two critical factors here: attraction and communication. Sounds like you have a good start bringing your attraction back up. Obviously, keep working on that, as always.

Next, add some communication. Sometime - not during or right before or after sex, emind her, in a detailed and positive and thorough way, how much you enjoy her breasts and want to touch and be touched by them. In particular, ask her to lead some breast centric activity next time in bed - having her initiate should reduce the tickling. Take mental notes of which areas are sensitive and which she chooses to use to satisfy your request. Someday you'll very judiciously use those sensitive areas just right to make her feel really good, but for now avoid them and focus on the areas she enjoyed most when she was leading.

And remember - your communication can only ever be as effective as her attraction to you, so don't give up on communicating what you want, just be sure to keep increasing your attractiveness.

RPSigmaStigma · 2015-03-22T13:37:32+00:00

Personally, I think this sort of thing is a beta tell. My wife used to give me the "uh-uh" treatment when I would try to play with her tits during sex. Ever since I started applying TRP she's gotten more and more in to breast play. Now she'll even grab my hands and put them on her tits herself while she's enthusiastically riding my dick.

Basically, the solution is to just keep reading and applying TRP.

Edit: would the downvoters mind giving me some feedback? I'm honestly confused.

BluepillProfessor · 2015-03-23T01:52:59+00:00

This thread was not linked to TBP so I am not sure on the downvote brigade.

I am imagining hordes of female lurkers suddenly pissed and furiously downvoting. Seriously though, if you have something to say then say it.

BluepillProfessor · 2015-03-22T14:24:24+00:00

Welcome to Married Red Pill. You can help us and yourself by visiting your old sub and dropping some Red Pill crumbs back to this sub. I think everybody in /r/deadbedrooms needs to pay us a visit.

In the vein of watch what they say, not what they do, if your wife doesn't get wet from you playing with her breasts why not do something else? Most guys just want to grab some breast meat, not gently twirl around the nipples so if this doesn't turn her on then use her breasts like a handle to move her around and hold her in place during sex but avoid the nipple stimulation.

If she does get wet, and if she protests, then you can start the long process of ignoring her protests and doing what you want when you want.

If you take this route start SLOW. Just a single flick the first time before you fuck her good. Then a couple of flicks and a grab, and so on. Work up to it slowly.

I suspect this is related to some type of insecurity and you probably need to move slowly and gently to tell her how beautiful her tits are and so on as you guide your wife where you want her to be, eventually.

RBuddDwyer · 2015-03-22T17:32:44+00:00

Play with her tits because you want to play with them, not because you think she likes it. Sex for women is emotional not physical. Once you start having regular sex, read Sex God Method. Don't try it until you have a firm grasp on the rest of the relationship first, though.

More specific to your question, though; my wife will sometimes get the giggles / ticklish on her nipples and clit. It's usually a sign that she is not turned on yet. Stoke the fire more before you start sex next time.

Title	Breast play
Author	Dot807
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Comments	34
Date	March 22, 2015 12:44 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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