Red Pill is a praxeology. Systems of practice. In other words auto mechanics, not ideology.

I've yet to see a guy find this place who didn't find it for one of two reasons:
1. My wife got fat, won't fuck, or wants to leave me
2. My life is miserable and I'm at my witts end.

There is almost ten years of 'how I stopped being celibate and learned to fuck" posts. Answers from:
1. I stopped being a fat lazy fuck and my wife blows me all the time
2. My wife is still a frigid bitch so I ditched her and got a younger model
3. My wife fucks fine, but I fuck 3 other girls too
4. I've accepted she's never gonna fuck like I want and decided to stick it out until the kids graduate

It's not zen metaphysics. It's not ideological purity. It's not morality, ethics, squaring the round peg of your church doctrine to the round wet hole. It's just problem/solution/replication. read what guys tried, try it yourself, repeat it if it works and stop doing it if it doesn't work.

The only difficult part for guys is figuring out what 'working' means. Thats why this place has always been amoral.

TheultmateCad wants to fuck the neighborhood and come home to his wife? sweet. I'll learn a lot about what a one sided open marriage is like. I'll learn what chicks cheating on their husbands do. I'll learn how the lifestyle pans out over the long term. I don't care if he's a piece of shit or a complete chad, I'm focused on whats in his material thats for me. FireTempered saw himself 20 years earlier in Cads stuff, and threw in some pointers on a wife spending you out of house and home, and what challenges happen to chad in his 60s.

The_Litz wants to spend years coming to terms with the success and failure of his life, slowly build himself into a man he can be proud of and accepting that it took years to be a piece of shit and it will take years to stop being one. I'll learn what the way ahead for me would be if I try to 'fix my marriage'. i'll learn how self reflection is important, but actions are more important, and change is uncomfortable. I'm focused on what's in his material that's for me. There's a ton of dudes who are 'doing it for the kids' who are showing where that road goes that added to his stuff

Don't make this harder than it needs to be.