I have been married 6 years now. I'm new here and have started just today to go through the recommended reading materials found on the side bar.

Today something came up that has never made any sense to me over the last six years and I'm curious if this has anything to do with our marriage.

My wife just started going to the ancestry.com website and it brought the conversation(argument) up that we have had twenty times. She has never changed her last name to mine. I tell her it's pretty damn insulting that she keeps saying she will and never does.

I'm just not sure if this has anything to do with our marriage or if this is something altogether different playing out in her head? All she says is "why are we talking about this?". I just walked away tonight after saying "fuck it I just thought you said you were going to, I guess I can let it go if there is no need to keep going on about it" I wasn't upset and tried to keep frame the best I understand it. Since I said that she has been trying to engage with me but I plain don't feel like talking to her but honestly am not worried about it anymore.

What's happening here, anything?