Are we dating the same guy?

PoopBlimp · 2023-05-08T02:49:02+00:00

Tbh, the focus needs to be on getting these groups shut down, not emulating them. They are ruining men's lives and they will only get worse if we don't do something about it.

ApplicationClassic19 · 2023-05-08T05:59:46+00:00

Because as soon as we do that the entire ecosystem would be after our blood. All MRAs do is talk about men's rights and they are already after us, it'd only get worse if we started naming and shaming women(and I do believe that we should).

Toshiba9152 · 2023-05-07T23:40:20+00:00

Why isnt there a male equivalent?

Because that would be "misogyny". And it would be shut down in less than an hour of it being put up.

Academic-Complaint12 · 2023-05-08T10:04:27+00:00

These groups should not exist, for either gender. Almost everyone who breaks up breaks up because they thought something was wrong with their ex, or their ex did something wrong.

Peoples entire dating history does not need to be, and should not be, subject to public scrutiny. Especially not posted from a biased perspective.

lewandisney69 · 2023-05-08T02:31:58+00:00

Men don’t gossip like women do, that’s why.

pilotlet · 2023-05-07T22:48:46+00:00

These types of platforms are like The Inquisition or the KGB. You never know for sure why someone would show up there, or with intentions those images are published. It is better to fight against that scourge, whether perpetrated by men or by women.

Siddyf · 2023-05-07T23:29:17+00:00

Women share a particular cohort of men, therefore that club checks out.

DemonKai7 · 2023-05-07T23:57:17+00:00

It'll be great, but can't happen.

jjj2576 · 2023-05-07T22:35:55+00:00

Men don’t need to use social media for Hypergamy.

kochIndustriesRussia · 2023-05-08T13:30:29+00:00

How is this ruining mens lives? So I'm dating 5 or 6 women? So what? Exactly why is this bad....?

AbysmalDescent · 2023-05-08T15:56:01+00:00

Because we live in a society that is okay with attacking, slandering and victimizing men, especially when it can be justified under the guise of protecting women. No one would care about protecting men from predatory women.

It's the same reason why the nordic model when it comes to sex work has been so widely adopted, despite the fact that it basically does nothing to protect men from predatory providers or criminalizes men. Same reason you still see women expect men to pay for every date, meal and transportation, when you see cases of men being charged and criminalized for doing the same thing to women. Same reason you still see people blame male victims when they are manipulated, raped, defrauded, harmed or slandered by women.

kochIndustriesRussia · 2023-05-08T16:07:07+00:00

People have been doing this on theDirty since 2007. About men and women. Posting their pictures...telling their secrets...with no legal recourse to get it taken down. I thought it was common knowledge that of you start talking to a girl (or guy) you type their full name into theDirty to see what type of shit they've been up to? I've done it (posted about women) and I've had it done about me. Who cares?

Vegetable_Ad1732 · 2023-05-09T03:56:03+00:00

There was such a group for men, and it caught hell. Here's an article that mentions this.

https://www.glamour.com/story/are-we-dating-the-same-guy-facebook-group

Title	Are we dating the same guy?
Author	GrandWizardBumtickle
Upvotes	21
Comments	22
Date	May 7, 2023 10:34 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/13b59zi/are_we_dating_the_same_guy/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/are-we-dating-the-same-guy.1218621 https://theredarchive.com/post/1218621

Comments