There is one huge, controversial thing that I personally think needs to be addressed. Something feminism has capitalized on to get alot of social control. A woman's biology. Thus far, whenever periods, pregnancies,menstrual cycles, post partum, menopause, etc etc. Whenever those enter the equation in many dynamics. I often see one of two things happen. 1, no person bats an eye if the woman becomes aggressive or even outright violent. In fact some may try to console and comfort her and she will hurt them. 2, somehow, which I still cannot bring myself to understand, these women will blame a man for the pain in their bodies.

I'm here to say it bluntly, I won't sugar coat it at all. Men, you are not responsible for the pain a woman's biology causes and you shouldn't have to be responsible. You can comfort and console, that's your choice. But if disrespect or even violence is thrown at you, you shouldn't have to take that.

I won't sugar coat this either, pain is not virtue or martyrdom. The hormonal cascade and pain a woman goes through biologically. Is not grounds for social leverage, virtue or even some twisted notion of greater suffering. And for the ladies reading this, whether you find this offensive or not. I don't care, cause I think it needs to be said.

No one, neither men nor women. Should escape accountability because of their biology. Yes, giving birth is painful, that doesn't mean it should be a man's fault for your pain or a getaway free card for disrespect. Same thing goes for all the other stuff.

Now, about feminism. I've honestly seen it happen too much for my own good. In dynamics involving periods, birth or post partum, a woman can make very clearly bad or even harmful decisions. And I'd see feminists shift blame onto the man, somehow. Then excuse the woman by claiming pain, he doesn't know what she is going through, etc etc. Now if the roles were reversed and the man did the same decision or action as the woman. He'd most likely be in jail or ostracized.