Does anyone else get a bit bothered by dick size shaming?

Abject_Taste5086 · 2025-01-25T10:28:08+00:00

considering the body counts the slores amass nowadays lol its not really a concern...they have ALOT more if not everything to be ashamed for way more than men

Sick-of-you-tbh · 2025-01-25T18:17:56+00:00

Any time a man disagrees with a woman the first thing she brings up is penis size. Not only is this dehumanizing, it’s incredibly gross.

I seriously don’t understand how they think penis size at all equates to the quality of a person. It’s actual neanderthal thinking. Idk how many times I’ve heard women share the adage “If I was a man I’d have a huge penis.” First of all that’s incredibly egotistical, but also what a dumb way of thinking that you’re so great meaning you’d have a huge penis. Like what?!

Also, the audacity for them to call men the ones with high standards and gross opinions on the size of women’s parts. Men do not care, but women are always ready to shame a man for the size of his genitalia. It’s disgusting. Seriously can you imagine if men had exact preferences for measurements? That would be weird right? Yet women are allowed to put things like “only looking for 8 inches” or whatever in their dating app bios and no one says a thing.

small-pp-small-smv · 2025-01-25T22:00:15+00:00

Whenever I catch a woman dick shaming or height shaming, it instantly shatters any potential for or actual positive perceptions of her and it lowers my opinion of their sex in general.

Gr8danedog · 2025-01-25T21:22:57+00:00

I was a late bloomer. I didn't go through puberty until the 8th grade. I remember being dick shamed in the 7th grade locker room. Why do people shame others for something that is beyond anyone's control? If I could choose, I would have a dick that is a foot long with a 6" circumference. But, I have no choice, nor does any other man. Therefore, why the shaming and humiliation?

Abject_Taste5086 · 2025-01-25T17:43:39+00:00

go ask thst uk woman that just fucked 1032 men in a day how much she cares🤣🤣😂😂🤣😂😂🤣

Born-Leadership4526 · 2025-01-26T01:18:07+00:00

Feminists throw misogyny at anything if they can’t win an argument.

I don’t let it get to me in fact I publicly ate with them because then it makes them look stupid

spike_beagle · 2025-01-25T19:06:46+00:00

Just ask them their weight and watch the spectacular meltdown with a lawn chair and popcorn.

mrmensplights · 2025-01-26T00:00:31+00:00

It doesn't really bother me, but it's a huge example of hypocrisy and double standards. The whole "666" bullshit brazenly on dating profiles and spoken about openly but if men have standards like weight, age, or body count they lose their minds. Nevermind that things like penis size and height are immutable while weight and body count are choices.

As with may things, if a man does it it's disgusting and egregious behavior and misogynistic but no such pushback or stigma when women do it.

Valiantay · 2025-01-26T06:06:12+00:00

This works for both men and women. Example for women:

"Why would dick size matter to a lesbian?"

"I'm not a lesbian"

"Oh really? I guess this kind of attitude is why I don't see men giving you attention"

Some kind of variant for men but it's usually women doing it.

Remote_Purpose_4323 · 2025-01-25T13:04:40+00:00

You know I don’t prefer wide vjjs too, this doesn’t make me misogynist, I guess this is preference and not shaming. I am standard in terms of size and a lot of women in certain positions can’t handle it, so the ones who tell that they need big one either have a very big v, or they have too many partners all the time, both scenarios you just can you know find someone who suits you. But tbh I would prefer to bring shaming back, promiscuity we have nowadays is beyond normal.

Gruzzlebeard0983 · 2025-01-25T16:41:57+00:00

Us men will always be measured by our size and strength. It’s only so called body shaming when it’s about a woman bc aaaalllll women are kweeeens. Are you short like me? No real man. She deserves better. Small penis? Get cucked by a stronger bull. It will never change. It’s natural selection

Big_Sprinkles9139 · 2025-01-26T02:51:41+00:00

Men complain about loose boxes, but don't always use that against women, while women always use it against men.

ResponsibleCandle829 · 2025-01-25T16:30:27+00:00

If it's any consolation, a large majority of women actually care less about package size. What matters to this specific audience is proper communication and shows of affection (sexual or otherwise). That's a woman you want IMO. Thank god my girl fits the criteria

Choogie432 · 2025-01-26T02:08:41+00:00

With how inexcusably vain we know our exes have been and still are, they can't say anything about us potentially having our own share of it.

lifemagiccat · 2025-01-26T08:22:22+00:00

Be promiscuous. (Pay). Amass a triple digit body count. Realize women vary 'there' as much as men, (like an ass to like an aircraft hanger'. Stop caring. Source: (don't ask).

Guinnessron · 2025-01-26T17:33:33+00:00

Who cares. I don’t listen to these gals at all.

UbiquitousWobbegong · 2025-01-25T17:55:04+00:00

I've never ever heard someone say you're misogynistic if you are insecure about your dick size. The solution is to stop watching stupid people on tiktok and YouTube. You could probably stop watching tiktok entirely and only benefit from the decision.

Here's the thing, I like most breasts, but some I don't find attractive. I'm not going to shame anyone, but I'm not going to date people I'm not attracted to either. If a woman shames you about your dick size, don't associate with that woman. If a woman isn't interested in your dick size (most women don't care unless you are way above or way below average), don't associate with that woman.

Simple as. Stop giving these people any attention or any of your time. When most of them realize that that behavior makes people drop them, they will stop doing the behavior. And the ones who won't change from that feedback are probably never going to change, so they're not worth your concern either.

MaizeSensitive9497 · 2025-01-25T15:01:28+00:00

I did when I was heartbroken. All you gotta do is let time pass and hear less dick shaming lol

Yousaidyoudfighforme · 2025-01-27T12:59:26+00:00

Not at all. Remember, a lion does not care about the opinion of sheep.

Inevitable2370 · 2025-01-31T11:37:53+00:00

Woman here ... I’ve had a few parters with very large penises who had no idea they were way above average because compared to porn actors (the only other penises they see) they were small. One guy said he only discovered that magnum condoms were wayyyy more comfortable than regular-sized well into his 30s.

Intelligent-Fennel56 · 2025-01-27T01:42:07+00:00

Guys do it too let’s not kid ourselves lmao.

HelpfulAppointment54 · 2025-01-25T16:52:26+00:00

No. Some guys do need to keep their ego in check and dick size is just an easy target. Coming from another guy, there are just some that are ass holes.

Title	Does anyone else get a bit bothered by dick size shaming?
Author	MaximumTangerine5662
Upvotes	300
Comments	45
Date	January 25, 2025 10:00 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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