I have seen some MRAs have a victim mentality and say stuff about how "Men have it worse than women", and feminists say "Women have it worse than men". This is just a useless waste of time that leads to nothing. Arguing about who has it worse will just make you fall into the victim mentality complex. I have seen some MRAs straight up deny women have issues and feminists straight up deny men have any issues. People should just accept the fact that men and women have certain issues, and that they must be solved. If you start a competition about "who has it worse", then bravo, you think like a SJW. I have seen someone on a women's sub talk about an ACTUAL women's issue, and some people on the sub will find some random unrelated men's issue to compete, and it will get a ton of upvotes on this sub. Feminists say, "The whole world was created by men to be against women", but I have also seen "MRAs say, the whole world was created to be against men". You should really stop trying to make this a competition. Also, the excuse "because this what feminists do" isn't valid. Stop thinking like a feminist.