How Can a Man Protect Himself From False Accusations?

Embarrassed_Curve769 · 2023-11-09T09:49:27+00:00

Do not flirt with women at work. Do not socialize either, other than what is absolutely necessary. No one-on-one meetings, no mentoring, no favors. NEVER give compliments. If at all possible, do not go for any after hour entertainment if women are going to be in the company.
Date only women within your social network. This can be hard if your network is small, but if that's the case, then maybe work to expand it first. It's much harder for a woman to make false accusations if your friend group sees you and your girlfriend interact normally on many occasions.
If a woman shows red flags in her behavior - unreasonable, unstable, duplicitous - anything of that sort, then drop her like a hot potato, block, disengage, cut off contact.
Do not sleep with a woman until you have checked off all of the above and you are sure that at least at surface level she can be trusted. Still it's good to save receipts if at all possible.

KrazyJazz · 2023-11-09T14:04:40+00:00

It's quasi-impossible in the western world nowadays. All a woman has to do is to point her finger at you. "He makes me feel unsafe/uncomfortable." That's about it. Police, HR, general public, she won't need to justify herself in no way, shape or form. In the other hand, YOU SURE WILL HAVE TO. Big time. Avoid them like the plague, everywhere and all the time, but it's never fullproof.

Eastwood96 · 2023-11-09T13:44:20+00:00

Do not have any relations with women. If you have to because of ie. work, remain neutrally friendly and cordial. Do not engage any further than is necessary.

soontobesolo · 2023-11-09T14:57:29+00:00

Security cameras all over your house, with audio. (Not pointed at the bedroom, but maybe one picks up the sound). Nice messages after every encounter too, documents the pleasure.

slowrider24 · 2023-11-09T16:18:24+00:00

You can't, the system is rigged against men, don't believe it, go to divorce court and open your eyes. Spend the money on a lawyer and hope for one who has experience in these cases. Common sense don't apply here. If she said it you done it , down the shithole you go.

Angryasfk · 2023-11-09T15:30:01+00:00

You can’t.

All you can do is reduce/mitigate the risk.

Follow the Pence rule (which is called “sexist” and “actionable” by feminist lawyers incidentally): never be alone with a woman who is not your wife/gf (at least you only have to worry about their false accusation potential). Do not flirt or say anything with a possible “double entendre”.

Do NOT look in a woman’s direction in public, especially on public transport.

Oh and be lean, muscled and good looking!

ZealousidealUnit9149 · 2023-11-09T22:01:56+00:00

As someone who’s actually fighting the system, be aggressive about the police reports and investigations. I realize that the police not investigating is just as bad as you being guilty…

No matter what you do you better make sure that the police investigate every situation surrounding your relationship. Make sure that they give you all the evidence and that they are collecting evidence and they’re not trying to hide it or withhold it from the local prosecutor.

It is the duty of the police to make sure that they turnover all evidence that shows you and good or bad, but also shows her and good or bad .

It is not up to police to pick and choose who they want to prosecute, or who they want to frame as guilty. Look up Brady violation.

And what I’ve come to realize is some police will not tell the prosecutor the whole story and leave out a whole lot of information and frame it as you attacked her and that’s it.

you have to be careful because when you go to court, that’s all the trial is going to be over they, what the police made it out to be. You will not be able to bring in any evidence that the police purposely left out.

This happened to me I was convicted and it was clear that what Police sent to DA was a piece of story. My attorney did a shitty job. I did not realize that and now I’m fighting for post conviction relief.

Don’t let the cops screw you over they need to do their job whether they want to do it or not and some cops are crooked. If you’re Hispanic or black, they will not go out of their way to do their job. Be careful.

UnfurtletDawn · 2023-11-09T19:53:14+00:00

You can do what cops do. Wear a body cam.

r_c2999 · 2023-11-09T18:35:26+00:00

we need more men in schools, without any advocacy for the issues of men and boys we'll continue to struggle. These women can always victim their way out of anything.

coolman20012 · 2023-11-09T20:31:42+00:00

do not interact. do not interfere. do not cohabitate. go your own way.

ZealousidealUnit9149 · 2023-11-09T22:00:21+00:00

I am going through a divorce and custody, and my ex-wife a month before our custody and divorce trial went to the police and said that I punched her.

It was clear that she had no injury, and she used a little bit of make up to put a dab on her eye, but the police refused to investigate refused to put all the past instances of the police being called on her . They even lied in there. Police report about me, admitting to a motive.

She tried to use it as a way to get custody, but she didn’t realize that that’s not how it works. I can go into the civil court and show the judge the proof that she was lying.

Police can be corrupt and dishonest.

Be careful guys there are police that can easily frame a police report to make a Mail look guilty and send it to the prosecutor .

And then the police or the city might tell you that it’s your responsibility to point this out in trial that the police are not following policy and possibly violating civil rights … basically it’s OK for the police to violate civil rights and the Chi into lie and it’s up to the civilian two point this all out in court… my case I’m dealing with.

It’s a mess. Be careful and make sure police investigate allegation!!!!!!

TheMuttOfMainStreet · 2023-11-09T12:54:53+00:00

Camera in your crib

Large_Wonder4981 · 2023-11-10T05:22:12+00:00

Stop worrying about your reputation. Create a Pyrrhic victory. Jail cells have spawned way greater men then the halls of congress. Women are the worst bullies because they don’t fight their own battles.

Why do you think they switched to mental health red flags. Because a mentally Ill person they can scorn, dismiss, and ridicule when he acts up. They also don’t have any standards of evidence.

hp02121 · 2023-11-10T19:21:14+00:00

The best way to stop this crap from happening is to pass a law making lying about sexual assault, rape and sexual abuse a felony, with mandatory jail time.

I realize that there may be women out there who are going to call me a misogynist, but the fact is the laws are skewed to believing women, and even if the man is cleared or found not guilty, his life will have been ruined.

We have reached a point where men are walking away from dating, relationships, and marriage. There are men who are now realizing that the juice isn't worth the squeeze

Ok-Corner-3729 · 2023-11-09T22:52:40+00:00

It's hard to do. My boss wisely said "always leave your door open, if you're inside". It doesn't seem to apply to women, strangely.

And, yes, I have had to step outside my own office, and ask belligerents (usually female) to debate with me in the corridor. I'm in education.

coming2grips · 2023-11-10T02:56:41+00:00

TBH, in today's society you can't.

alyomushka · 2023-11-09T12:02:39+00:00

No sex outside marriage )))

Fun_Actuary4804 · 2023-11-09T22:33:03+00:00

Present whatever woman you're interacting with a contract for them to sign.

Antarkian · 2023-11-10T12:40:41+00:00

Don't interact with modern women. Trad cons only.

AnteaterEven · 2023-11-12T00:48:48+00:00

Until a witch hunt is over, all you can do is hide from the pitchforks.

Flat_Monitor_1485 · 2023-11-12T21:28:08+00:00

Don't date or talk to liberal women or conservative women with liberal view points. Also, record every conversation with anyone (pen recorder). Maybe even keep a journal of everything you did on that specific day.

Title	How Can a Man Protect Himself From False Accusations?
Author	WeldFrenzy
Upvotes	109
Comments	50
Date	November 9, 2023 9:35 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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