How do you not resent women?

TheRabid · 2022-03-14T13:25:59+00:00

I believe that the saying is “don’t hate the player, hate the game”.

dependency_injector · 2022-03-14T12:17:09+00:00

Some people are assholes and they will take any opportunity to make their lives better by other people's expense.

I just filter out men and women like this from my life.

OldEgalitarianMRA · 2022-03-14T12:30:54+00:00

Some of the stereotypical roles are self inflicted. I don't date women who don't work and I don't ever expect to support a woman. I don't put myself in positions where women can take advantage of me.

Be conscious of how they treat you and be quick to dump should red flags appear.

DeddestNash · 2022-03-14T12:56:04+00:00

You can throw out my opinion because I'm a woman and from an inside perspective, perhaps I don't see as well as yourself. But you must decide what you actually are hating on, is it women or is it how the society has come out to benefit women more and allow them to do more?

I have a boyfriend of 4 years and I, personally have sought out higher paid jobs and I have wanted to attempt side businesses. I feel in the past I was pushy on him too for getting a higher paying job but I have now stopped as he enjoys his work and he's damn good at it too. So in a way I too have probably made him feel awful about not getting a higher paid job, and i never meant for it, just feared that we'd become what my parents used to be (financially struggling, stressed and frankly falling out of love). It was never an excusable behaviour of mine but with my own humanity I realised what I was doing was unforgivable and uncalled for and stopped. I'm the one that wants higher wages and if he doesn't it shouldn't matter (unless it was becoming an issue and was a last resort).

In all else I feel I treat him as equally as he does with me.

I'm not the perfect person or woman but why hate all women when you obviously can have the perfect judgement on who to hate personally. If you meet a woman with a bad personality ignore her, but I don't believe you can resent the woman for the way society has advantaged them, after all isn't that why were here?

TendieDinner777 · 2022-03-14T12:25:29+00:00

Obligatory “not all women, therefore I’m going to ignore all of your valid points even when they are relevant”.

I just tell myself that I would be the same way if society allowed me to. That helps, to an extent.

contraterrene · 2022-03-14T12:56:58+00:00

I don't resent individual women at all for this unless they are active feminists pushing for privilege and not equality.

If I were born a woman with the instincts to get resources from men the world would look very differently.

Who I do resent are gender feminist organizations, politicians that pander to sexual inequality for votes, justice be damned and weak men that enable all of this.

Ok_Willingness8512 · 2022-03-14T13:28:30+00:00

And the stereotypes you’re placing on women is also why you hate women and why feminism is taking hold so hard. You stereotype as like “omg yassss fashion” and then get mad when the other stereotypes stay in place? You’re part of the problem. Some stereotypes are okay for you and others aren’t? You’re only okay with the stereotypes that cut us down and not the ones that make us be “coddled”? Hm. Kind of sounds like if things were the way you wanted them, you’d still be cutting women down. It’s your own problems with women, probably having to do with bad relationships or bad experiences, so you label all of us as ONE. “Women”. Not some women. Just women.

bluechair01 · 2022-03-14T13:17:16+00:00

Whoa nelly, you got valid points and I can understand how you feel, but you shouldn't automatically hate every single one of them. Sure there's a lot of them who deserve to rot in hell for the rest of eternity, but there's some actual good ones out there. Plus we shouldn't paint them all with the same brush like they do to us

Ok_Willingness8512 · 2022-03-14T13:22:47+00:00

You’re generalizing by saying “women”. But if you were gay, you could just as easily find a man just like this. There’s plenty of men out there that are lazy, won’t work, let the woman pay the bills, etc. it’s not “women”. It’s specific people in and of themselves. There’s men out there that have the same issues you name off that “women” have. You’re focusing on “women”, and that’s not the problem. You’d be better off saying “I don’t like people”, and that’s fine and probably more likely, but you’re hyper focused on women.

Myth_5layer · 2022-03-14T12:36:18+00:00

I don't resent a person for something they themself can't control. We don't narrow the gap by being assholes, but by giving kindness and criticizing in the best way we can.

thunderstorm-nigg · 2022-03-14T13:20:02+00:00

Whatever your argument be just don't post a title like that

Their are thousands of asshole lurkers who comes here seeking stuff like that and posting in other subreddits to show how much of incel we are

Emrekarsturkey2019 · 2022-03-14T13:49:51+00:00

I get your point but I don't think it's beneficial to have these kind of semi-hateful antiwoman posts on the mensright subreddit, otherwise it will become something very similar to FDS really quick.

You're kinda putting every woman in the same basket, maybe that's just how your experience has been, but I've met enough Woman to say that assuming every woman is like you described couldn't be further from the truth.

Posts like this really miss the actual meaning of the subreddit

python1982 · 2022-03-14T14:03:50+00:00

For most the resentment is not for them being a women, it's how they act that is the issue

Virtual-Possible5646 · 2022-03-14T12:53:29+00:00

Cause being a man is the easiest shit I’ve ever done.

Title	How do you not resent women?
Author	Asderio09
Upvotes	17
Comments	40
Date	March 14, 2022 12:02 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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