I've been reading a bunch about consent. I've never been asked about if I consent by sexual partners or even doctors. Males are suppose to be asked if they consent too.

DavidByron2 · 2022-04-23T14:12:03+00:00

All these rules about so-called equality are only rules laid on men and for protecting women. In the past this was made explicit, as a chivalrous duty on men, but in these days where it's justification is based on rhetoric about equality you have to know the rhetoric but the reality never changed for a second.

It gets more interesting if you ask about the situation between say two girls having sex or as you say two guys. What do feminists say about these cases when asked? They get mad and ban you. They assume nobody could possibly care about these cases and they are only being asked about as a trick.

Feminists don't care about consent. Not for men, not for women either. The entire purpose of all their rules is to subjugate men to women sexually.

NextStopMyAss · 2022-04-24T01:53:27+00:00

There was a funny post a while ago on TwoX. It was a woman who was asked for consent every step of a sexual encounter. He asked if he could touch her left breast, her right breast, her buttocks, and every step of the way she was asked if it was OK, which made her feel super comfortable.

Then someone came along and asked the intelligent question if she asked him if she could touch him. The comment was eventually deleted after being downvoted to -100+ and having the posters there shriek at him, with the person who made it was undeniably banned, but it's funny how consent is nowhere near a two-way street for them.

ASexualSloth · 2022-04-24T00:41:39+00:00

Men are actors, women are acted upon.

'He knocked her up' 'She fell pregnant'

If you are a man, you will bear the burden of responsibility, whether you feasibly can or not. This has been pushed to the extreme in current culture.

sgt_oddball_17 · 2022-04-23T15:48:48+00:00

The Feminist "rules of consent" are ridiculous.

As Dr. Jordan Peterson put it, "I feel like we're living in the delusional fantasy of a 13 year old girl."

arrouk · 2022-04-23T21:53:43+00:00

I can say for sure my doctor has. It actually stood out as a bit strange as I had asked him to check me but it makes sense thinking back.

DoomNukemBlood3D · 2022-04-24T01:31:00+00:00

What is consent nowadays anyway?

A woman could demand you to do whatever she wants you to do with her and then accuse you of rape.

Soon, us men will need to bring written up contracts of consent or at least record her saying that she agrees to sex.

It has gone too far.

2022-04-23T16:21:08+00:00

Never asked for or given consent. If we're making out and you don't stop the action when I grab your ass and start taking your shirt off and neither do I, we gon fuck and it's implied

xsplizzle · 2022-04-23T16:25:02+00:00

Whenever i have been at the doctors for anything that required me to remove clothing, the doctor has always asked me if i wanted someone else in the room whilst i am being checked over, this has happened twice, once with a prostate exam and once when i found a lump on my testicles.

This is normal procedure i believe, how did you not have a warning before being given a prostate exam? Why else would you be removing your clothes and bending over? im curious about how these surprise prostate exams occured

SpideySurreal · 2022-04-23T18:23:13+00:00

If I were to ever have intercourse or even foreplay with a woman, I'd video record her reading out a consent form drafted by me and signing it on record without any duress or influence of drugs/alcohol. I'd make sure that she'd get my consent on record too, since it must be a fair exchange.

Late twenties and I'm not dying to get laid, the 'Red Pill' (which I tasted in 2021) has liberated me, add to that the fact that dealing with modern women sexually (with or without marriage) in my country is a legal nightmare. If I had it my way I'd always record every intercourse for legal protection but that's just my preference or viewpoint. And lastly, 'Simping' is now a grave offence in my mind for the rest of me life!

TextDependent6779 · 2022-04-24T00:21:55+00:00

i didn't even think about this. yet another example of feminist brainwashing, while people are arguing we shouldn't be critical of feminism.

recently debating with someone here about how asking for consent is obvious and should come naturally.

asking men for consent didn't even come up. even her phrasing was "my boyfriend is the only guy who asked me for consent". never even crossed my mind to ask if she asked the other guys if they consented.

im guessing this is linked to the idea that women can't rape men, that women are physically weaker therefore its their consent that's important. either that, or the idea men are supposed to lead sex, and not women.

however this started, its stupid. men should be asked for consent too. makes me wonder, is it expecting men to lead sex that leaves women sexually unsatisfied? you hear a lot about how men never prioritise a woman's pleasure, but i wonder if leading women would help that become prioritised? i also wonder if women would effectively prioritise a man's pleasure?

raclnp · 2022-04-24T00:51:56+00:00

Actually, people will think you are weird if you complain about not having too many "spectators" around, at least that's my experience as a man.

Nobody asks for consent. But some are more gentle than others, thankfully.

Quite a few doctors and assisting personal are quite rough though when you get diagnosed, and think you have issues when you don't like being treated like an object, or want privacy.

Physical examination before military service or social service is a good example, but "normal" medical examination can feel just as objectifying.

Eastwood96 · 2022-04-25T09:17:25+00:00

Men are assumed to be perfectly fine with sex anytime/anywhere, while women who are even looked at in a flirtatious manner can be perceived by some as victims of harassment. It is complete bullshit when the guy is asked, post-coitally, if the girl said the word "Yes" before sex, as if anyone seriously says before jumping into the sack, "Yes, I consent to this activity." It's likely the guy didn't utter those words, either--maybe, the woman should be charged with rape, as well. Oh, wait...she won't.

RiceStickers · 2022-04-23T16:07:38+00:00

I’m so sorry that this has happened to you. I’m concerned about your experiences at the doctors. That’s not normal or okay. For sex, it’s essential that BOTH people consent and is not gender specific.

BrianGossling · 2022-04-23T17:35:50+00:00

Am doctor and it would actively be impossible to perform a prostate exam without consent. 99% of prostate exams are done in your typical Full Physicals in doctor offices to screen for prostate cancer, it's a part of ALL male physical screenings past age 25ish. You would have known that coming in to your appointment for a full physical, you would have had to take your underwear and pants and belt off to prepare for it, you would need to assume the position of laying on your side with your knees to your chest during the examination. (British use the bend over method still I think). All of this is what would be called implied consent for a medical examination. The patient is aware of the prostate exam, the patient consents by cooperating with the doctors instructions without coercion. At any point you can say Stop or No, or even refuse a prostate exam and that's removing the consent. You do not need to sign anything, nor does a physician need to gain a verbal consent for every part of the physical exam... "Can i listen to your lungs? Can I look into your ear? Can I perform a prostate exam? Can I feel for testicular cancer?" You've consented to the physical exam already, including the very necessary prostate exam. You may also request a chaperone to be present in the room (ie a nurse), but this is a rare request for men.

I mean, if that wasn't your situation all 3 times, then holy shit. But I wouldn't say it's ever been an issue of some unethical docs doing prostate exams without consent.

flibbidy_floob · 2022-04-23T20:00:20+00:00

The underlying assumption is "of course the guy always wants sex". Ok so this may be mostly true, but not necessarily with whatever woman is pressuring him.

OutlandishnessNew845 · 2022-04-23T17:03:19+00:00

I mean you dont own anyones body, u have only yours, so if you want to touch, kiss or Any other thing with (doesnt matter male or female) body, you should always politely ask is thats ok? Ir can i? You cant just do it and later tell - i dont need to ask, u just saw they dont mind.( every predator sayed). Its sad, because tipicaly, most of the woman thinks that every man is always open for sexual acts, and you can jump on him or grab private parts without consent (sometimes its becoming sexual assault). But yeah, The girl just grabbed your dick, you should be happy, she showed you she wants you! Hahah, imagine it in reverse, dude grabbing girl like that will now be in court for assault, or with a broken nose. We need equal rights for this. (Btw im a female 24years old)

Aimless-Nomad · 2022-04-23T15:12:58+00:00

Consent is just something they are using as yet another legal bludgeon against men.

Unless its rape, STFU. Go take your buyers remorse somewhere else.

flibbidy_floob · 2022-04-23T19:44:26+00:00

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Title	I've been reading a bunch about consent. I've never been asked about if I consent by sexual partners or even doctors. Males are suppose to be asked if they consent too.
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