This was a reply to a comment i made on the london sub, discussing the feminist movement to teach kids all males are sexist. I wont link it, but you can find it yourself if you care.

This comment shows exactly what we are fighting against, the scale of the problem we face, and what is wrong with society at large.

"I'm sure you're not a bad person, but let me tell you as someone who's been where you are: you are indulging your worst side when you join those men's rights groups. They don't want you to become a decent member of society; they want to keep you awkward and weird so you never leave the group. That's why they encourage these orgies of loathing and desire against women. It's exactly what the Islamists do when they're winding up a suicide bomber; they use those powerful levers of hate and desire and disgust as a springboard to get young men to do what they want. You I am sure have been through some shit. You I am sure have your own pain. But we are talking about women here, and how they also have their own pain. And you are indulging the worst of yourself when you paint yourself as a victim, when you exaggerate and dissemble to make your point.

Women are not your enemy. They're not evil. And while there are some areas where men have worse outcomes than women (education, dangerous jobs, etc) and many other mitigating factors which may outweigh the sex advantage, in GENERAL men are in a better, stronger position than women. We as human beings should strive for a more equal world, in all areas. We should live in a place where everyone gets equal opportunities and has an equal chance to shine. And yes, there are things we need to talk about for men. And yes, it's important.

But right now we're talking about women. Because men are killing women every three days in the UK - that doesn't happen the other way around - and rape prosecutions have collapsed. Women police officers are not arresting men so they can rape us and kill us and leave us for dead in the woods. Women police aren't sharing pictures of murdered men in private whatsapp groups and laughing about it. Women are not - I'm sorry - aggressively sexually harassing men on the streets. We can get to men when there's time but right now women's houses are on fire and that's where we're focussing, that's what we're talking about. If you genuinely want fairness, a world which isn't sexist, and I'm sure on some level you do, then you need to unfuck your mind from this MRA nonsense and recognise that equality comes in stages, and we focus on those most in need first. If men were being murdered every three days by women, that would be us. But it isn't. And getting angry when someone points that out doesn't make you dedicated or loyal; it makes you someone who ignores evidence which damages their ego. You are better than that. Take the hurt and learn from it. It's no fun when you're going through it, but you'll emerge the other side a stronger, more flexible, happier person. Because I can see from your posts that right now you are desperate and you need another way. Get out of that MRA stuff, it is poisoning you."