Suck It Up

BSexclusionzone · 2014-01-22T01:12:28+00:00

People from the Red Pill, if you are going to come by to cross-post stuff, be at least polite enough to mark it as cross-post in the title. If it's not too much to ask.

femdelusion · 2014-01-21T21:31:00+00:00

His first error was to ever overtly look for sympathy from a woman (women). We already know women lack the capacity for empathizing with the male experience, but sympathy is another side of the equation.

Do we? Funny, because the many women involved on here seem to be able to do that. I agree it's hard to empathise across genders, but that goes both ways.

Even in the most ‘emotionally evolved’ women, by order of degree, Hypergamy is always testing for male fitness in order to assess whom she will pair with either in short term breeding availability or long term provisioning availability.

There just isn't good enough evidence for this. We know that, in dating contexts, something like this is probably true, but it's very far from clear it translates to a general aspect of psychology. After all, women don't seem to have any problems with being friends with men where they'd be contemptuous of them as dating prospects. That suggests that the contempt isn't for them as such, but rather as 'eligible' material.

I think, in general, the level of sexist generalisations doesn't really help the piece. I find it just as offensive as the silly comment on Jezebel, that renowned centre of erudition and calm commentary.

BSexclusionzone · 2014-01-21T23:40:37+00:00

I couldn't disagree more.

Most women actually show empathy towards men, particularly when engaged in long relationships. Sure, we need to be strong most of the time, but good women are there in our lows to help us.

It is feminism who, by its own design, destroys women's empathy towards men. It is designed to do so through its privilege/patriarchy/oppression/class struggle narrative.

I, personally, won't accept as carved in stone a world that demands and justifies bi-dimensional men that go by bottling up their feelings until they blow up or commit suicide. I believe that the MRM should fight for society's compassion towards men, dispelling both traditional "tough alpha" myths and feminist tripe, not perpetuating them. It is instrumental if we are to help the potential suicides and those trapped in the glass basement.

I don't think this is the place for this narrative.

chavelah · 2014-01-21T23:03:40+00:00

"We already know women lack the capacity for empathizing with the male experience..."

Nothing like a sexist, demonstrably false statement in the first few paragraphs to make you want to keep reading!

Ted8367 · 2014-01-21T22:06:17+00:00

For the past 60 years feminization has built in the perfect Catch 22 social convention for anything masculine; The expectation to assume the responsibilities of being a man (Man Up) while at the same time denigrating asserting masculinity as a positive (Shut Up). What ever aspect of maleness that serves the feminine purpose is a man’s masculine responsibility, yet any aspect that disagrees with feminine primacy is labeled Patriarchy and Misogyny.

What's missing from this analysis, which is true as far as it goes, is that over the past 60 years the trading value of the "feminine" has been falling. The question which should be addressed by the ladies - and it's getting urgent now - is "What use are you?".

Ivan_Fackoff · 2014-01-21T23:26:00+00:00

Why of why linking to Jeezbells? This ups their search rating. Freezepage it or Donotlink it.

SacreBleuMe · 2014-01-21T22:32:22+00:00

Women have hypoagency and are helpless victims of the patriarchy. Men have hyperagency and privilege, and should be using it to help the poor female victims. Men can't be victims - What the fuck is wrong with you, shitlord? WHAT ABOUT THE MENZ?!?!?!?

Title	Suck It Up
Author	scottishredpill
Upvotes	23
Comments	35
Date	January 21, 2014 8:26 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1vsf6i/suck_it_up/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/suck-it-up.1004615 https://theredarchive.com/post/1004615

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