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The idea that Toxic Masculinity dominates our lives takes another tumble. Study finds women are more jealous of their spouse's opposite-sex friend.

NeoNotNeo

May 23, 2022

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Title	The idea that Toxic Masculinity dominates our lives takes another tumble. Study finds women are more jealous of their spouse's opposite-sex friend.
Author	NeoNotNeo
Upvotes	581
Comments	73
Date	May 23, 2022 11:30 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/uwdd9u/the_idea_that_toxic_masculinity_dominates_our/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/the-idea-that-toxic-masculinity-dominates-our.1118786 https://theredarchive.com/post/1118786

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you need statistics data? here it is https://ncadv.org/STATISTICS

summary: -1 in 4 women and 1 in 9 men experience severe intimate partner physical violence, intimate partner contact sexual violence, and/or intimate partner stalking with impacts such as injury, fearfulness, post-traumatic stress disorder

-1 in 4 women and 1 in 17 men have been victims of severe physical violence (e.g. beating, burning, strangling) by an intimate partner in their lifetime.

1 in 7 women and 1 in 18 men have been stalked by an intimate partner during their lifetime to the point in which they felt very fearful or believed that they or someone close to them would be harmed or killed

-1 in 5 women and 1 in 71 men in the United States has been raped in their lifetime.

-72% of all murder-suicides involve an intimate partner; 94% of the victims of these murder suicides are female

i mean do you really need prove that statistically ,in every culture and countries on earth MEN are more domineering and violent to their spouses/gf/exes than Women?

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Let’s rearrange your statements….

“There are more headlines for women harmed by DV than men” because “Journos don’t report DV against men”

If something is happening to two groups, and it isn’t reported on when it happens to one, the other will appear to be more affected.

I personally don’t see DV as a zero sum game, and believe that we should honestly report on all DV. Warts and all.

The statistics state that 50% of all DV is reciprocal, meaning both sides of the couple using violence against one another.

For the remaining 50% of cases where the violence is non-reciprocal, 70% of the violent parters are women.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1854883/

This would assume that in all relationship types involving DV, women act violently 60% of the time and men 40% of the time. Sex just acts as a force multiplier in violence due to the larger on average strength of males vs females resulting in more hospitalisations and deaths.

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the police, media and the court dont care about men getting murdered by their wives/exes?? if there are violent crime perpetrated by women toward their husband/exes i'm sure it will make the news, because of the rarity of it. it certainly make the news here in indonesia.

you are living in a bubble, an echo chamber. i'm not american, you focus on this johnny depp stuff while everywhere in the world women get beaten, raped, murdered by their spouse or bitter/jealous exes.

men are victim too, but the scale and the level of violent they received are far milder than what happened to women. the data and the eye test back it up.

so again back to my original comment on the topic, in general women mightbe more prone to jealousy than men, but still because of men in general are more violent, they are more dangerous.

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