Why are so many parenting forums do hateful towards men?

DO_Kagome · 2024-08-04T20:48:14+00:00

It's part of toxic feminism. Many women have normalized trash talking men. Mike Tyson said it best, "Social media made y'all way too comfortable with disrespecting people and not getting punched in the face" - Mike Tyson

Gullible_Driver8487 · 2024-08-04T21:00:40+00:00

From what I HAVE seen those forums often have topics of discussion about getting more child support, removing a man's parental rights, finding ways to trick men into fatherly roles, getting nonfathers to also pay child support...

I have not fathered any children, but those forums are an outstanding reason I have been terrified to for so long. Those women only seem to date, fuck, marry, and give birth just to capitalize as much as possible. It is nothing less than terrifying.

I would say keep off those forums if you want to be ignorant and blissful.

Complete_Category_36 · 2024-08-04T21:29:20+00:00

Because this space run by females. And most females online influenced by toxic feminism.

omfgsrin · 2024-08-04T22:50:52+00:00

Because a man is only a 'parent' when money is involved. In all other respects, a man is 'another child to take care of', 'another mouth to feed', 'a pervert to put up with', and 'a potential r-pist in the household'. Welcome to manhood.

ShelterSensitive7400 · 2024-08-05T00:38:42+00:00

I made a post on the Parenting subreddit before.

I wanted to ask how other parents handled their children not eating what was made. The gist of it was I cooked something, and my son didn't want to eat it. This is genuinely unusual for him as he'll eat most things, including tons of vegetables, so we asked him what he wanted and he said some nuggets. My wife then started prepping the nuggets.

I explained all this, and then a long comment string of female posters latched on to that last point about my wife heating up nuggets and talked about how I was weaponizing incompetence and how I wasn't upset because I just threw the work at my wife.

The most hilarious thing about their tirades against me was that my wife was out all day with her friends and I had done everything. When I posted this, they didn't care. I was weaponizing incompetence.

These women are mentally ill. They're either in relationships with men they cannot appreciate and most certainly don't love for one reason or another, or they're bitter divorced single moms living off of child support payments but still think they're doing it all on their own.

Njaulv · 2024-08-04T22:02:25+00:00

Lol oddly enough the childfree rooms hate us too.

Fearless-File-3625 · 2024-08-05T05:18:50+00:00

Because they are majority women, anything on the internet that exceeds a certain critical mass of number of women turns into man hating hell hole.

black_orchid83 · 2024-08-04T21:14:13+00:00

I think it's just unfortunately become the norm. I think it's also sad that people view fathers taking care of their children as babysitting. I don't know where this thing about fathers supposedly being the incompetent parent came from but it needs to stop. I've noticed that on TV and in movies, fathers are portrayed as dumb and incapable of caring for their children. Women want to be taken care of but don't want the men to have any rights. That's what they would really say if they were telling the truth.

Next_Note_382 · 2024-08-04T21:42:54+00:00

The relationship advice forums are even more toxic

63daddy · 2024-08-04T23:07:54+00:00

I haven’t spent a lot if time in parenting forums, but from what I’ve seen, most don’t really focus on parenting, but rather focus on mothering. They want women to have the biggest say in custody and to receive great child support payments.

It reminds me of the recent focus on how women report doing more home chores, completely ignoring the fact that this is a trade off many couples agree to in return for the husband being the primary breadwinner. (Not to mention the fact men do more home maintenance, as opposed to chores, but that’s another issue).

NotJeromeStuart · 2024-08-04T20:57:38+00:00

Many words are gendered that don't seem like they are. The word parent is a mother.

LouiseAndMe · 2024-08-05T06:42:42+00:00

mumsnet is a feminist cesspit

mrmensplights · 2024-08-05T16:26:26+00:00

Women. The answer is always women. It isn't just parenting it's anywhere with women.

Alarming_Draw · 2024-08-05T21:49:16+00:00

why?

cos most are full of divorced women who hate all men.

pissed_off_elbonian · 2024-08-05T15:35:08+00:00

Ask who runs these things, you’ll have your answer.

uncertainty_47 · 2024-08-05T20:23:42+00:00

If you want positive parenting then I recommend https://www.reddit.com/r/daddit

Why are so many parenting forums do hateful towards men?

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Title	Why are so many parenting forums do hateful towards men?
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Date	August 4, 2024 5:33 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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