Anybody else notice everything we put together for ourselves as men, they tear it down by making it out to be something of either evil intent or for 'not real men'?

Passport bros - how it started and its true meaning: men apart of it just wanted to experience dating somewhere else and had nothing but good intentions and just wanted to start a family and were even willing to learn new languages and integrate into a new culture respectively, etc.

Passport bros - When mainstream media got a hold of it: SOME shitty western tourists were always doing shitty things in other countries BEFORE and AFTER passport bros even became a thing, but they group them all together in order to associate it with something negative in order to control the public perception so they see it as a sinister movement and since it involves men no one even questions it.

Mgtow - how it started and its true meaning: men just wanting to find happiness and fulfillment without the need of a partner through hobbies, activities, etc.

Mgtow - When mainstream media got a hold of it: Evil Misogynists.

Video Games - what it really means to men: Being able to immerse ourselves in a new world, having fun and creating memories with friends and family, feeling of accomplishment when you get better at it, etc.

Video Games - When mainstream media got a hold of it: It's for men to rehearse their homicidal fantasies and bring them to reality, it's for losers, basement dwellers, not for real men, etc.

I'm starting to realize that anything that involves us finding any sort of path that doesn’t involve the benefit and/or approval of western society/media/women, it’s automatically bad even if what you’re doing is not harming anyone. And if you don’t comply, you’re shamed, insulted, and/or laughed at and it’s completely socially acceptable as long as your gender is male. We’re harshly judged for everything we do and don’t do, and I’m honestly tired of this.