Why does it seem like every girl I’ve ever dated is trying to compete with me?

Roamer56 · 2024-03-11T01:14:22+00:00

It’s ok to end the date and if they ask why tell them you are looking for a companion, not a competitor.

Rejection is a two way street.

ButWhatOfGlen · 2024-03-11T01:00:57+00:00

Unfortunately, feminism and the newfound "you go girl" society, has decided that competition is better than complementation. I do not agree whatsoever, but who cares.

I think males and females complement each other beautifully. Put against each other is just wrong and wasteful.

Cactus2711 · 2024-03-11T01:57:20+00:00

Patrice O’Neal had the best analogy for this. He said he’s like a Karate teacher and his girl is a white belt. Every time she learns something from him she goes HII-YAH! and tries a kick. He has to block it, retaliate and put her firmly on her ass so she remembers he’s the master of the dojo

Women never stop testing your masculinity. It’s relentless. They are hardwired to constantly check that today you are still the masculine, dominant, confident leader. You don’t get credit for yesterday. So many men have no idea why their partner gives them less passion, attraction, appreciation, respect over time. This is why

Remote_Ad_2780 · 2024-03-11T00:10:32+00:00

They think intelligence and being educated are same thing. They are not. We know women are being gifted higher grades, have all the hand outs you could possibly think of as well. 🙄

mhk23 · 2024-03-11T00:59:52+00:00

Women want the rights of men, privileges of being women (chivalry) and the accountability of children.

Feminism has become female chauvinism.

Feminism has masculinized women.

Chasing education, career advancement, status and wealth are masculine metrics of success. These are qualities women find attractive in men. Not vice versa. Feminism has scammed women to pursue these metrics for the past 3-4 generations.

Men find beauty as the primary attractive quality. Her career, education and etc are a bonus but it doesn’t make her hotter in a man’s eyes. A 42 year old female professor isn’t as attractive as a 21 year female super model or IG model. Women will shame men for their preferences but we are supposed to accept their standards.

Women fall in love with what they hear. Men fall in love with what they see. That’s why women wear makeup and men lie. Both are deceptive practices.

A women’s personal worth is not correlated with her attractiveness to the opposite gender. Women love to conflate the 2 and use that as an attack vector against men.

Misogyny is unacceptable but misandry is? Toxic masculinity is not acceptable but toxic femininity is?

Read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi.

Share and discuss this message with your fellow male friends and family. Reclaim your masculinity unapologetically.

neemptabhag · 2024-03-11T00:14:33+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/s/PSKdbAVwhb

Because today's women have been told by feminism that their happiness lies in being extremely overbearing and avaricious.

Don't worry about them. Focus on yourself. Once you're in your 30s you'll have your pick of the litter while they struggle to get married.

Slight-Rent-883 · 2024-03-11T06:39:06+00:00

because "equality" idk. I found that I have the same issue. Women these days are acting like what they think a guy is but never realise that we don't want to date guys, we want actual women

mhk23 · 2024-03-11T01:01:00+00:00

See my above comment. Women want the accountability of children.

TryLambda · 2024-03-11T01:16:28+00:00

Due to feminism bro

Illustrious_Bus9486 · 2024-03-11T19:20:00+00:00

Feminism

rabel111 · 2024-03-11T04:31:10+00:00

Some women are intensely hierarchial and competitive, predominately with other women, but also with men. The hierarchy between women is often measured by the power balance women establish with the men in their lives. Women who dominate their male partners, are considered more powerful, but may also be considered manipulative or controlling.

By establishing their superiority to you, they are attempting to consolidate their position in the matriarchy.

jack_avram · 2024-03-11T04:35:52+00:00

Reject them if they are insecure and stuck in an unnatural indoctrinated state of needing to prove they are just as masculine as a man rather than having the deep confidence of embracing their own nature-given femininity that was never weak to begin with, nurturer of life for god sakes and certainly doesn't leverage blame as a primary source of power and wellbeing. There's real strength and independence (in thinking) when embracing your real nature and not being insecure of others because some ideology spends billions trying to indoctrinate such thinking.

Then again, there's also this concept of "shit test" flirting that some girls like to play to test a guy's wit in those early impressions. As for if respect is actually growing from there or not might be up to real compatibility. Shouldn't be overkill and usually more subtle, not too extreme or it's clearly insecurity. Go with your gut - is she incredibly rude and insecure or just flirting? Best to test her back, be bold. Can both handle it? Being respectful of course.

HeckMaster9 · 2024-03-11T08:21:41+00:00

How is it that your academic achievements get brought up in the first place? Do you talk about them or do they? How do they degrade you?

GhettoJamesBond · 2024-03-11T04:15:13+00:00

You probably are just in an environment with those kinds of people. I used to work in a male dominated field and the girls all seemed to want to prove that they could be just as good as the guys. The girls I met outside of that field weren't like that.

EOD_Bad_Karma · 2024-03-11T02:05:35+00:00

Both my girlfriends like to test me from time to time.

Intellectually and physically.

Sometimes, you just have to remember that they WANT to be put in their place.

bobbyhillistrill · 2024-03-11T03:56:22+00:00

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Silver-Maple-1989 · 2024-03-11T16:05:19+00:00

What do you mean "degrade" exactly? I don't know how you are going to avoid competitive women if you are exclusively looking for women in competitive scholastic fields.

Have you considered compromising on the scholastic "intellect" side of your checklist for other types of intelligence?

J2501 · 2024-03-12T09:23:27+00:00

Hyper-competitiveness is yet another projection they attribute to 'toxic masculinity', when in fact, women have always benefitted from and manipulatively spurred on competition between males.

When males compete over women, the only beneficiary is the prize.

BasedBuild · 2024-03-11T03:57:58+00:00

Because fefails are defective men, and neither them nor mentally ill men in dresses will ever be a woman!

Chama-HUH · 2024-03-11T00:25:28+00:00

Competition is fun, why not see women as competitors.

hostility_kitty · 2024-03-11T05:24:56+00:00

That’s weird asf bro

Title	Why does it seem like every girl I’ve ever dated is trying to compete with me?
Author	Aljahim
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Comments	64
Date	March 11, 2024 12:02 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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